ailsagirl
ailsagirl's JournalI LOVE the way people are finding creative ways to help out others...
while sticking it to Trumpty Dumpty at the same time!!
Nine Places Unhappy People Look for Happiness
Happiness is not a state to arrive at, but a manner of traveling. Margaret Lee Runbeck
Happy people know that happiness is a choice. They know it is not a reaction to present circumstances. Instead, happiness is an available decision despite them. They have removed the thinking that waits for everything to be perfect before joy in life is experienced.
On the other hand, unhappy people are always searching for happiness. They believe happiness
is reliant upon the acquisition of something new or something different. They are constantly chasing, but never attaining. Often times, they search for it in all the wrong places. (emphases mine)
Consider this list of 9 Places Unhappy People Look for Happiness.
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Worth reading
http://www.becomingminimalist.com/be-happy/
Overcoming Oppression with Power
Power StrategiesApart from resigning into depression, what can a low power group do when the dominant group is unwilling to negotiate a change in the status quo? Basically, there is only the possibility of increasing its relative power sufficiently to compel the other to negotiate. Relative power is increased by either of two means: enhancing one's own power or decreasing the other's power.
Enhancing Ones Own Power
As I have indicated in earlier essays, empowerment involves
1. increasing one's possession of the resources on which power is based and
2. increasing the effectiveness with which the power is used.
There are three areas in which those with low power can find additional resources:
1. within one's self or group;
2. within potential allies; and
3. within the oppressor.
Nelson Mandela in his autobiographical book, Long Walk to Freedom, provides many illustrations of how he did this, even when he was a prisoner of the repressive, apartheid South African government.[1]
Much, much more
http://www.beyondintractability.org/essay/oppression-power
Hi, Cha!!
I'm finding it therapeutic to browse quotations and post those I find to be particularly relevant. It helps builds up my courage, and when I post them, my hope is that it might help give others a change in perspective.
All is not lost-- I firmly believe that.
Thanks for the lovely photo!!
It's therapeutic
"giant, orange, festering, splattered turd"It's also a means to vent our frustrations and evoke humor
I don't see that in any way being counter-productive-- we've been through a helluva lot and this helps take the edge off-- ever so slightly. How can this be a bad thing??
Bottom line: it's a catharsis
.....
Oh! I have slipped the surly bonds of earth,And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings;
Sunward I've climbed, and joined the tumbling mirth
Of sun-split clouds, and done a hundred things
You have not dreamed of --Wheeled and soared and swung
High in the sunlit silence. Hov'ring there
I've chased the shouting wind along, and flung
My eager craft through footless halls of air...
Up, up the long, delirious, burning blue
I've topped the wind-swept heights with easy grace
Where never lark or even eagle flew --
And, while with silent lifting mind I've trod
The high untrespassed sanctity of space,
Put out my hand, and touched the face of God.
Rest in peace, Mr. Glenn
But change, especially when it's significant, is not linear
It's like the Dow-- it reaches highs and then it plummets-- but the trend is always upward.
Take President Obama.
That we nominated him and that he won was a huge leap forward-- and plus he succeeded as one of the best presidents ever. Now we're sliding backward. But that "glass ceiling" has been shattered forever.
Our country is going through growing pains-- so much change yet so many regressives who fight it tooth and nail.
Two steps forward, one step back...
Whether we're referring to gender or racial equality, I believe the trend is ever forward.
IMHO
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