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April 16, 2013

Terrorism.

(Trigger warning at the comments)



Canadian feminist activist receives death threats and other abuse after being targeted by Men’s Rights Activists


And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.

Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.

Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.


A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.

Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.






http://manboobz.com/2013/04/15/canadian-feminist-activist-receives-death-threats-and-other-abuse-after-being-targeted-by-mens-rights-activists/
April 15, 2013

Apology

Rick Ross Offers Formal Apology For Rape Lyric


After being dropped from a lucrative endorsement deal with Reebok over his date rape lyrics; “Put molly all in her champagne, she aint even know it, I took her home and I enjoyed that, she aint even know it,”, Rick Ross finally offers a real apology…

“Before I am an artist, I am a father, a son, and a brother to some of the most cherished women in the world. So for me to suggest in any way that harm and violation be brought to a woman is one of my biggest mistakes and regrets. As an artist, one of the most liberating things is being able to paint pictures with my words. But with that comes a great responsibility. And most recently, my choice of words was not only offensive, it does not reflect my true heart. And for this, I apologize. To every woman that has felt the sting of abuse, I apologize. I recognize that as an artist I have a voice and with that, the power of influence. To the young men who listen to my music, please know that using a substance to rob a woman of her right to make a choice is not only a crime, it’s wrong and I do not encourage it. To my fans, I also apologize if I have disappointed you. I can only hope that this sparks a healthy dialogue and that I can contribute to it.”

–William Roberts (a.k.a “Rick Ross”)


http://www.411vibes.com/rick-ross-offers-formal-apology-for-rape-lyric/

April 15, 2013

Creepy.

Proud Woman-Hater Declares War on the Dictionary



Manboob,

You throw this misogynist term around like it is an insult. But you know me, who I am, what I write. And I honestly believe I am not a misogynist.

I am a Woman Hater. There is a world of difference.

Misogynist is a clever little Femcentric term that women created to hurl at men or society whenever men or society don’t fall to their knees for the little dears. Sort of like Racist, something that the thinking man, the educated men would never wished to be levied at him.

But I’m woman hater. And it came from a long, long time of seeing, watching, and being with women, and knowing the creepy, greedy, scummy, black hearted little bitches that they are. You can’t hurl that “you just get didn’t get any” thing women that like to toss at men’s bloggers, because I did and I know them to their fucking core, literally and figuratively. My number dwarfs the number of the average man.

A woman hater knows women, to their core, to their little black hearted center, and hates them as they are for who and what they are. I could less if the little dears get all the institutional things they want. Heck I want them to have it and create their little world that they are over there with them, and men are over here.

Hurl your epithets at me, your misogynist accusations and I don’t care other than, in a correct verbal sense, you are using the wrong term. Its a little insulting from that standpoint, but I find it fitting that you can’t tell a misogynist from woman hater. You defend them because you don’t know them.

See, being a woman hater is a sign of good sense, a realistic appreciation of the world, the way things are, and especially the way women are.

PS, I’m here because my name showed up with you bashing me over something and I wish you would do it more. It really gives me better cred with the fellows. Fuck, we’re even good for each other. I give you shit to write about so you can play your beta/omega game, “Look I stood for you against those bad bad men. Please don’t reject me.” and your slamming me gives me more cred in the ‘Sphere.

Toddles Manboob

Mark Minter

http://manboobz.com/2013/04/05/proud-woman-hater-declares-war-on-the-dictionary/
April 15, 2013

Ugly.




More


All About the Menz: Douchey Vintage Douche Ads Edition

http://manboobz.com/2013/04/09/all-about-the-menz-douchey-vintage-douche-ads-edition/
April 14, 2013

D.H. Lawrence Righteously Rages Against Misogyny in Newly Discovered Essay

Lawrence wrote the piece some time in late 1923 or early 1924 in response to an essay published in Adelphi, a literary magazine Murry edited. That essay, which ran under the byline "JHR," was a viciously misogynistic treatise called "The Ugliness of Women." Its author argued that "in every woman born there is a seed of terrible, unmentionable evil: evil such as man — a simple creature for all his passions and lusts — could never dream of in the most horrible of nightmares, could never conceive in imagination."

Continued JHR, "No doubt, the evil growth is derived from Eve, who certainly did or thought something wicked beyond words."

Murry invited readers to respond to JHR, and Lawrence — a regular contributor to Adelphi — did so.

Lawrence argued that JHR was projecting, basically:

The hideousness he sees is the reflection of himself, and of the automatic meat-lust with which he approaches another individual...Even the most 'beautiful' woman is still a human creature. If he approached her as such, as a being instead of as a piece of lurid meat, he would have no horrors afterwards.
Meat-lust! The revolutionary idea that women are human! Advice about how to approach the opposite sex that would still work today! Point to D.H.


http://jezebel.com/d-h-lawrence-righteously-rages-against-misogyny-in-new-472510692


Well well
April 14, 2013

694 Anti-Choice Bills In Just 3 Months, Republicans Continue To Attack Women’s Rights

694! No, no that’s not the number of miles from my house to the wonderfully overpriced world of Disney or even the number of dollars in my sad bank account. The Guttmacher Institute released a report on Thursday that states 694 bills focusing on women’s bodies, how they get pregnant or if she chooses to terminate the pregnancy have been introduced in state legislatures. Just in 2013.

A new report released on Thursday by the Guttmacher Institute takes a comprehensive look at how the War on Women has continued past the election cycle and into 2013. It shows that the new legislatures across the country are still very much dedicated to restricting sex education, availability of medication, and abortion access for women. Indeed, 47 percent of the 694 provisions were directly related to abortion.

You heard that right, 694 times in three months, states have sought to pass unconstitutional pro-life pro-fetus, anti-woman laws.



http://www.addictinginfo.org/2013/04/12/694-anti-choice-bills-in-just-3-months-republicans-continue-to-attack-womens-rights/


You know--- this is really fucked up.


April 13, 2013

Time to Talk About Misogynist Bullying

The Violence Against Women Act--a federal law covering a wide range of gender violence issues, from domestic violence to rape--was reauthorized this year with a new provision mandating that high schools across the country provide bystander training.

Harvard law professor Diane Rosenfeld teaches the Gender Violence Legal Policy Workshop and has been working for years to push the federal government to fund programs like MVP in schools. "It is definitely in a school's best interest to do as much on the prevention side as possible," she said, noting that the Steubenville event--sensational as it was--was hardly a one-off, but a growing phenomenon among students at high schools and colleges.

Group sex attacks against girls are statistically on the rise. For the last quarter-century, since numbers have been kept, sexual violence has also become more brutal, the age of perpetrators is dropping, and attacks by multiple perpetrators are up. According to U.S. Department of Justice statistics provided by University of Arizona Public health professor Mary P. Koss, the percentage of rapes involving two or more offenders went from 7 percent in 1994-1998 to 10 percent in 2005-2010.

Easier access to violent and dehumanizing Internet porn has coincided with the increases, and many observers believe the trends are related.

And it isn't just teenage boys who are complicit. Among the many disturbing aspects of the Steubenville case were the attitudes of the female bystanders, and the haters who took to Twitter to threaten the victim after the verdict.


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/nina-burleigh/time-to-talk-about-misogy_b_3069764.html


But, but---I was told right here on DU that things are getting better! (Ok, i trashed that thread) And I Should be grateful!
April 13, 2013

The Power of a Girl

I come from a family lineage of strong women who lived by the feminist credo long before the term became fashionable. My French grandmother fought to shelter and save political activists pursued and persecuted by the dictatorships of Oliveira Salazar in Portugal and Franco in Spain. My mother was an activist for women’s rights in Mexico’s poorest areas. They are the ones who taught me to take responsibility for and act upon what I witnessed.

Yet following the family trend didn’t come naturally to me. When I moved to Cancun in my twenties, I envisioned a quiet life, a slightly nostalgic existence, in which I would stare out at the sea, paint and write novels. Fortunately, my journalistic instincts soon took hold. Cancun was a male-made paradise built with the principal purpose of making money and catering to the whims of holiday-goers from Mexico’s neighbors to the north. The city was devoid of its original, authentic population so I went in search of the displaced people who had been relocated to the surrounding countryside. There, few had running water; most lacked food and the bare essentials for a dignified existence. I met a malnourished woman whose baby had just died of hunger just a few miles away from the lush beach resort I was trying to call home, presenting a stark contrast to the luxury and hedonism of Cancun. True to my mother’s legacy, I began writing about what I encountered in the local paper, unaware at the time that my life’s course would take a dramatic change.

Through my work as a journalist in the ensuing years, I have tracked and reported on organized crime rings that sexually exploit girls the world over. I have built a secure shelter for battered women. I have brought paedophiles to justice. I have fought sexual tourism, human trafficking, child pornography and every other type of brutality inflicted upon women and girls.

For my efforts, I have been rewarded with incarceration, threats and harassment. I have been beaten and demonized in the public eye. Yet I haven’t taken a step back, not because I am unaware of the dangers surrounding me. Fear is all too real and violence remains an efficient means by which to silence people like me. But my strength comes from girls and their power has become my own. Here is why:


https://www.chimeforchange.org/stories/the-power-of-a-girl?pillar=justice
April 12, 2013

Some people are just perceptive

A family member, on a moments introduction, somehow knew I like to read, and I'm interested I'm obscure history. How did he know?

"I have a book you'll really like" they said, pulling it out. I made a mental groan--it's title is "Chastity"-- but I put my game face on and smiled.


And was completely surprised.

He says,

"This is a story about a women back in, you know the Victorian era, well she, she was--raped--he says lowering voice respectfully, and the rapist came to trial, but it was all men back on those days, women couldn't be on juries, and her rapist was released out on bail. Well she saw him in the field, you know, bothering her and she thinks no one was ever going to believe her, because it was such a shameful thing, you know and he had a couple of buddies to back him up, so you know what she did?"

He leans back, gleam in eye. "What did she do" I asked, recognizing my cue.

"Why, she went in that courtroom at the trial and shot him five times! And THEN she had to go on trial for murder. And you know what happened at that trial?" I shake my head.

The WHOLE courtroom was filled with women!! They came out to support her. And she was exonerated.

I thank him, and gently hand him the book back and thought "how did he know?"

The trial of Lunney and two male relatives who were tried as accomplices was heavily covered by the two Norton newspapers. Women from Norton jammed the courtroom, taking most of the seats. The women didn't understand how a woman could be tried for murder in the death of her attacker, Yocom said. At the time, a woman couldn't serve as a juror and could vote only in a school or municipal election.

Witness after witness testified to seeing Lunney shoot McEnroe, 26, but Lunney told jurors McEnroe earlier had raped her. After 17 hours of deliberation, the all-male jury acquitted her.

"It's a case of a woman being raped, and she just decided that he had taken the most valuable thing she had -- her chastity," Yocom said.

Lunney, who had seen McEnroe in a field several days after he had been arrested for raping her, felt threatened by him, Yocom said.

"She believed she needed to take (matters) into her own hands," he said. "I think the jury didn't have any question that he was the rapist. The jury didn't like to send a woman to prison and certainly didn't want to put her to death."

After learning of the story, Yocom traveled to Norton several times to unearth the details from Norton County Court records and newspaper stories from the Norton County Library. The newspaper stories about the trial ran on Page 1 each day and covered most of that page.

"It was just something that was crying to be written," Yocom said of his decision to write "Chastity."


http://cjonline.com/stories/120405/boo_murder.shtml
April 11, 2013

I Am Not Oppressed

I am a proud Muslim-American woman, and I am tired. I am tired of being told that I am oppressed. That I have no voice. That I need to be liberated.

I am tired, and I am speaking out for the rights of my and other fellow Muslim sisters to be able to dress and be how they wish to be.

When I first heard about the 'titslamism' campaign that the radical feminist organization FEMEN was undertaking, I regarded it with apathy. Their original mission seemed to be intended to raise awareness around the Tunisian activist Amina Tyler, a woman who posted a photo of her bare breasts to the FEMEN Tunisia Facebook page and received backlash from the Tunisian government for doing so. As a result, FEMEN opted to begin protesting in front of Islamic centers around the world, baring their breasts in an effort to deal with Islamism.

Or so they purported.

In actuality, however, their campaign is not aligned with what they supposedly intended. FEMEN and its supporters have banked on what they feel is 'politically correct' these days to tap into: a healthy dose of Islamophobia with a heavy dash of sex appeal. Inna Shevchenko, the leader of FEMEN, backs up these allegations in a response she wrote addressing the very Muslim women who protested the efforts of her campaign to 'free' them:

So, sisters, (I prefer to talk to women anyway, even knowing that behind them are bearded men with knives). You say to us that you are against Femen, but we are here for you and for all of us, as women are the modern slaves and it's never a question of colour of skin. ... And you can put as many scarves as you want if you are free tomorrow to take it off and to put it back the next day but don't deny millions of your sisters who have fear behind their scarves, don't deny that there are million of your sisters who have been raped and killed because they are not following the wish of Allah!"
Wow.

As the very woman who is supposedly being 'freed' by these protests, I am offended and disgusted. As a covered Muslim woman, I am greeted on a daily basis with passersby who tell me that I no longer need to wear the headscarf because I am in America. In this exact statement supposedly freeing Muslim women from the clothes they seem 'forced' to don, there is a level of oppression being expressed, as though there is only one way to be 'free.' The same beliefs are employed in FEMEN's offensive and ultimately pointless protests.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/laila-alawa/i-am-not-oppressed_b_3052001.html



This topic continues to interest me because of its complexity--which was not apparent at first. I support the right to protest, naked or otherwise. It was never about breasts so much to me as the attention those breasts garnered, and why. Anyway, I have a Muslim friend who is both devout and liberal (he's from The Gambia--you should hear HIM on the topic of Margret Thatcher, he couldn't believe the American press was defending her record) I tease him and ask him when he's getting his 'second' wife. We have several co-workers from Israel, so there's a lot of good natured teasing that has developed---he dishes it out as well as takes it.

Anyway, he and I have had many talks, in his family, it's a responsibility to represent Islam accurately. One of the things we agree on is there are different forms of oppression, taking your clothes off can be as oppressive as covering up, depending on reasons and circumstance.

He said, when women from Iran fled after the fall of the Shah, women were not wearing the Hijab, but many of their daughters voluntarily DID when they grew up. He said this has happened in other Islamic cultures as well. His own wife does not cover. He said it is a sign of modesty, but in the sense of being humble, a spiritual modesty. (I forgot to ask him why men didn't cover their hair as well) Modesty is considered a virtue males and females in the Islamic religion.

FEMEN breaks my heart, they try so hard, risked so much in what will be an ultimately futile movement.

I am not religious, I find something I dislike in all religions. An Islamic fundamentalist state is a dangerous place for women. But that doesn't represent all Islamic women.

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