In_The_Wind
In_The_Wind's JournalGiveMeFreedom is a beautiful username !
I understand Construction and Sailor my ex-husband was a welding foreman for Bethlehem Steel. He dropped out of high school in the 10th grade.Tough guy, with a heart of gold and a vocabulary that should have been sanitized.
imo: there are no perfect family relations. Your dear wife, Holly, sounds like a wonderful person. your sons are growing, they will become more like you as time goes on.
I do smoke weed. Have done so for many years. Your post looks well thought out.
You are doing just fine here.
I am so very sorry that you have cancer. meds can help but there is aways the chance that we will feel (at times) like the cure (or help with the medical problem) is worse than the disease. Very recently, I needed to stop taking a med that my body needs because the side effects had become dangerous to my future health. I'll get around to seeing my doctor sometime soon. perhaps before the next scheduled appointment.
re: posting on DU my words have been misunderstood more times than I can count. Recently . . . DUers who have gotten to know me via my post have ask questions to help me to explain my archaic cryptic answers. I believe the books I read purely for entertainment have greatly affected my posting style.
CaliforniaPeggy is a gracious woman who has forgiven me . . . my many mistakes here on DU. I didn't see your post with her regarding the 40 hearts. If you feel there is a problem maybe the two of you can mend fences by private message here on DU.
as for being a thread killer it happens to almost all of us. Send one of your DU friends a PM asking what they think about your post. Sometimes. . . you'll get a reply by PM but more often that DUer will post back to you you are a thread killer no more.
now, dust yourself off, look for threads started by DUers you like and join the fun ~ or aggravation, depending on the thread you've entered. all are usually welcomed here.
personally, there are some DUers (they already know who they are) that I will never exchange post with again because they pissed me off. whatever.
please look for one of my threads here in the lounge (I have only started one thread outside the lounge, ever) you will find some wonderful supportive DUers to exchange ideas with.
in the wind
good
I always play nicely with DUers who play nice with me.
mutual respect is important to me. always.
fyi: if you piss me off I'll probably send you a PM asking
before I say anything that would make you upset out here.
I'm nice to a fault unless provoked.
1st fuck up is free
2nd fuck up pisses me off
3rd you really don't want to know
Oh and, If anyone doesn't play nice to my friends
on my thread . . . . . .
sucks to be them. I stick up for my friends.
ok
I T W
it's like this
I'm a bitch with balls.
I had to be. I was an investigator for child protective services.
You cannot go gently into that battle. ever.
Here at DU, I am much kinder when I feel the need to cut someone off at the knees.
I usually ignore them, as not being worth the trouble.
until they make a habit of getting in my face on petty shit.
reply # 23 http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1240&pid=223890
I was rather pleased the day someone told me I had balls of brass.
I rarely hurl sexist insults at any gender.
When I want to insult someone, I have a better grasp of the english language.
I am a BAB in real life. I defend my right to call myself Bitch as in: you really don't want to fuck with this bitch, not if you want to walk away with your brains intact when I'm done.
I don't have time for petty pissin' contest.
psychological warfare. it's as annoying as a mosquito.
This year ~ valentine's day with DU
was very special for me
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Balls have nothing to do with courage. This is sexist.
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