I've got to have one diet Coke or Coke Zero per day -

late morning/early p.m., after my one or two cups of coffee.
After that it's hot or iced tea, depending on the weather. Usually an herbal tea - lemon ginger or chamomile.

Life is good.

Fascinating! I've admired Nancy P. ever since the day she first took the Speaker's gavel...

Hash brown potatoes?

I notice that at least one other "Safe Haven" Group always notes that status and

Puts "Respect" at the top of their initial comments.
Perhaps the Catholicism group could/should do the same.

Negativity is the subject of this post.

DU groups are best when expressing what they are for, not against.

I agree with all that Peggy said here and below. You need a surgeon lined up ASAP.

Do call on your daughter or parent in this instance. Either will feel worse than now if/when they discover they could have saved you even some of the suffering you're going through. Every patient looking at surgery needs an advocate before, during and after.

I had the post-menopausal bleeding occasionally over a period of years and D&Cs; was finally told uterine cancer a possibility/probability, had a complete hysterectomy and recovery with little problem and none since. I was told it was stage one cancer, no further treatment needed.
You do not need the mental suffering, let alone the physical problems you are dealing with.
Peace be with you.