Want proof?

Could you just walk into a company or workshop, a factory or even a club?
NO!
Its the same with a Spiritual experience, (finding God) Mind you make sure it is a good one not a satanic one, as that is also possible.
So back to the first line, You need to approach the administration some how to join, get a job by applying for it or becoming a member of the club to play a game of golf per say. (love golf) That is if you are accepted and paid your fees.
Do you get what I mean.
And HE Does give a shit, He gave His only begotten son etc..so who ever believes in Him (His Son) will have eternal life.
Its not easy, remember the wide and/or narrow road? However all things are possible with God. So yes Pray, have Faith and Trust whole heatedly.
I hope this note makes sense!
Thanks
Charlie