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usedtobedemgurl's JournalEveryone Keeps Saying How Will Laughed At First
Yes, he did, because sometimes, at public events, you pretend everything is great, but handle it afterwards. My theory is Will was trying to laugh and pretend everything was ok, but then he looked at Jada and she was not playing along that it was all good.
In this society, but especially in Hollywood, there are certain things that give an actress value. Heck, even in the regular world those things give a woman value. I cannot give you a top three list of what makes me feel physically valued, because there are only two for me - my breasts and my hair.
Before I got married, I showed my husband a photo of women who had had mastectomies. I asked if I got breast cancer, could he stand to be with me, if I had no breasts.
Is that superficial? Yeah, but if you think the world is not superficial, you have not opened your eyes.
I cannot begin to imagine Jadas life. Her kids, her husband and her job. With a disease that outwardly affects you, the way her hair loss has, you will lose friends, just because they find it awkward to be around you. All the time, you lie to yourself and others about how strong you are and how you are handling it just fine. You lie to everyone, including your husband. Sometimes it is because you are afraid if you tell someone, you will break down and never recover. Sometimes it is being ashamed you are not as strong as you feel you should be.
I believe what you saw was a guy trying to laugh it off until later. He looked over, and he could see the pain someone he loved so very much and the pain cut through Will. He could see a small bit into what Jada had been experiencing.
I am not going to get into whether what he did was correct. I just kept seeing people saying, He was laughing until he wasnt. That makes me think those people have not fully thought out the moment and all the struggles that came before, as well as he may not even have known.
I do not have what Jada has. I have something much different. Until I started taking my significant other to dr appointments, because I was told I could not drive, my guy had no idea of everything I was going through. I kept it from him, because of many reasons. My guy was dumbstruck by what I had not told him.
I can only guess, but I assume Will had no true idea until that particular moment. Maybe this explains why he laughed but then did not?
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