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csziggy

(34,136 posts)
7. We no longer give presents pretty much
Tue Dec 26, 2017, 08:36 PM
Dec 2017

My family stopped in 2001 after Bush told the country to go shopping. My husband's family has had gift exchanges for years - one gift per adult. Last year they started a "Dirty Santa" exchange - anonymous gifts with an elaborate exchange protocol. We took things that have been in our house for years. We came home with a sun catcher thing that we hung on the porch and a large electric griddle. If we don't use the griddle we will re-gift it.

The children in the families used to get books. This year they got gift cards to a book store, one card for each mother so she can help them select their books.

The other adults I give presents to got gift cards to restaurants. No fuss, no waste.

Mindless consumerism is the American way gratuitous Dec 2017 #1
It is all a loss write off for them... cbdo2007 Dec 2017 #2
Interesting.... Victor_c3 Dec 2017 #17
Dealing with the logistics of returns and unsold merchandise used to be my job Sen. Walter Sobchak Dec 2017 #3
Last year we were finishing out a customer's bathroom. Hassin Bin Sober Dec 2017 #10
Our neighbor had that happen with a computer. eppur_se_muova Dec 2017 #12
We used to have a mountain of bad Viewsonic monitors at work Sen. Walter Sobchak Dec 2017 #14
Shipping heavy items individually is extremely expensive Sen. Walter Sobchak Dec 2017 #13
I used to work the returns desk at a big box crazycatlady Dec 2017 #4
Must not have been Home Depot. Hassin Bin Sober Dec 2017 #18
Kohl's crazycatlady Dec 2017 #19
The article doesn't support the headline, though it might be true for used or damaged returns. pnwmom Dec 2017 #5
I only ever give what I know someone asked for / needs Skittles Dec 2017 #6
We no longer give presents pretty much csziggy Dec 2017 #7
We gradually stopped the massive gift exchange over the years. Grammy23 Dec 2017 #8
My adult kids and I did not exchange gifts this year zeusdogmom Dec 2017 #9
Our gift giving consists Texasgal Dec 2017 #11
My wife's family gives gift cards. MineralMan Dec 2017 #15
I told my kids that mercuryblues Dec 2017 #16
...says the person typing his diatribe on a computer that the "consumer industry" provided... brooklynite Dec 2017 #20
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