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Honeycombe8

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31. Oh, I can understand her not wanting to move.

Tue Feb 13, 2018, 12:26 AM

Feb 2018

It's very traumatic. She'd have to get rid of belongings, she's set with her doctors, her friends, she knows where things are, has a routine. I just went through a move. It was much harder than when I was young. Horrible. It's also very expensive.

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Oh, I can understand her not wanting to move. Honeycombe8 Feb 2018 #31

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