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In reply to the discussion: German insurance firm rewards top employees — with an orgy [View all]seabeyond
(110,159 posts)considering what i was writing.
huge problem, if a person is into serious understanding. huge. even now, you contradicted what i said, and further started on a post that i said NO ONE is talking about the prostitutes choice. that it is ONLY the men addressing a perceived view of the prostitute and throwing it at me as if it is what i think.
thru out the thread, i had men telling me how i thought of prostitutes and i kept directing them AWAY from the prostitute to my issue about how the men talked about using a body. about stamping a woman as used. or about all women are whores one way or another. that is what i discussed thru out this thread.
yet, here you are telling me, no.... it is about gender. when i say it isnt. you have the conversation judging the prostitute, when again, that is not what i have done, thru out the thread. and you are telling me that women are taught to be monogamous, when i wrote a post about that being a time of the past. i dont feel that way. i grew up in a time when that was NOT the expectation for women. so no, that is not a factor.
of course it is degrading. listen to the men talk about prostitutes when they are not "defending" them for their USE. listen to any man talk about a prostitute and they think very little of the woman. but the really amazing thing is the defense of the prostitute when any one challenges their use of them. that is where ONE lie comes in that i say, at the least, be honest.
another lie i challenge is these women are just really into sex. it has nothing to do with sex. it has to do with money. to eat. to survive. 20 bjs a night isnt cause she is horney. so i call that out.
another ugly that is ignored is the majority of the PEOPLE that choose this trade does it ONLY because they cannot get a job that pays enough money. that says a hell of a lot
another ugly that we ignore and refuse to acknowledge is the vast majority that choose to be prostitutes have been sexually molested, raped, as children. they are vicitims and they continue to be in trade.
another lie is legalization will make everything better. all the countries that have legalized it are having huge problems with increase in sex slaves and child sex slave trade. that is IMPORTANT. sex slaves. slaves. people FORCED and drugged and abused. that is not a little thing. legalization also makes the job for cops harder to get to the criminals. and the women are not safer with legalization.
these are my issues with prostitution. these are positions i speak up against. these are the only issues, that i can think about at this moment that i have. so anything any one else wants to give me is their shit and has nothing to do with me.
on edit.... if you could only have women you are attracted to? really? see, this is the talk that drives me crazy. do you think a prostitute gets to pick and chose. find only the attractive ones? do you think there are that many "atrractive" people having to buy a body to use?