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Theres been quite the kerfuffle here the last couple of days involving discussions of the word Wypipo with some white DUers getting very upset with the notion of using any race-identifying term to describe the behaviors of any subset of white people.
This is not the first time Ive seen reactions like this from some whites - not just to such terms as Wypipo but to ANY reference to their race. One sure way to get a reaction on DU is to post anything that includes the term white people. As sure as day follows night, several white folk will strenuously object and well see responses that have become so common, they have their own hashtags, such as #notallwhitepeople.
Yet, by the same token white folk seem to have no trouble at all identifying other racial groups and other demographics by their identifying characteristics - African-Americans, women, LGBQT, Muslims, etc. - and they do so frequently and without any self-consciousness or shame (often the very same post in which they complain about being referred to as white).
Ive long been fascinated by this dynamic, so I used to conduct an experiment with my law students on the first day of class. Id casually ask all of the black students to raise their hands. Without hesitation, the black students all raised their hands. And, invariably, the white students would turn toward the black students, anticipating that they WOULD raise their hands.
Then Id ask all of the white students to raise their hands. But, instead of raising their hands, most of them just sat there and stared at me like Id lost my damned mind. When I pressed them - Cmon - raise your hands! - a couple of them would do it grudgingly, but the others still didnt want to and got very agitated, asking why THEY were being singled out by race. Why are you asking. What does are race have to do with anything?
They also frequently turned toward their black classmates and either tacitly or sometimes outright asked them to say something about how wrong this was (Arent you gong t say anything? This is so wrong. Why arent you saying anything?).
This led to some very interesting discussions. For example, the black students asked their white classmates why they didn't object when I first singled them out - not only did they not object, but they fully expected the black students to identify themselves - yet the white students expected the black students to defend them when it was THEIR turn in the barrel.
When I asked the black students why they complied so quickly, they usually just shrugged and said it was no big deal. They often noted that they were so used to being seen and identified as black, they thought nothing of it. And since I hadnt said anything derogatory or suggested that I was going to treat them any differently or worse just because they were black, they werent concerned.
On the other hand, the white students said it made them very uncomfortable. The most common response was along the lines of, I dont think of myself as a white person. Im just a person. One student said she was afraid that, because I was black, my noticing they were white and saying it out loud meant that I planned to discriminate against them in favor of the black students.
I used this to help demonstrate how minorities are so accustomed to being identified as subgroups, to be singled out as minorities, while white people saw themselves, not as a group, but as just people and really resented being identified by their race. It also showed how minorities tend not to immediately assume that racial identifications include an inherent racial bias or judgment - without more, they see it as simply a description (That white lady over there said the store closes at 5), while whites tend to assume any racial identification is per se discriminatory - at least when applied to them.
That helps to explain why some white acquaintances get very uncomfortable when I say, for example, Ill meet you in the cafe at 3. Im black and will be wearing a beige coat. Theyre ok with the coat, but dont want me to think theyll notice that Im black - even though thats the most logical way to spot me in restaurant filled with mostly white people - because they think that means theyre being racist.
So, I think the upset about Wypipo stems largely from a real discomfort, not just with a subset of white folk being poked fun at for certain behaviors that invite ridicule, but from the larger and deeper unease that many white people have at being identified as white at all, i.e., something other than just people.