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Goonch

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12. Trump and Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Sun May 20, 2018, 11:22 AM
May 2018

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Individuals with this disorder exhibit a lack of ability to empathize with others and an inflated sense of self-importance.
Definition

The hallmarks of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) are grandiosity, a lack of empathy for other people, and a need for admiration. People with this condition are frequently described as arrogant, self-centered, manipulative, and demanding. They may also concentrate on grandiose fantasies (e.g. their own success, beauty, brilliance) and may be convinced that they deserve special treatment. These characteristics typically begin in early adulthood and must be consistently evident in multiple contexts, such as at work and in relationships.

People with narcissistic personality disorder believe they are superior or special, and often try to associate with other people they believe are unique or gifted in some way. This association enhances their self-esteem, which is typically quite fragile underneath the surface. Individuals with NPD seek excessive admiration and attention in order to know that others think highly of them. Individuals with narcissistic personality disorder have difficulty tolerating criticism or defeat, and may be left feeling humiliated or empty when they experience an "injury" in the form of criticism or rejection.

Related Personality Disorders: Antisocial, Borderline, Histrionic, Paranoid.

Symptoms

Narcissistic personality disorder is indicated by five or more of the following symptoms:

Exaggerates own importance

Is preoccupied with fantasies of success, power, beauty, intelligence or ideal romance

Believes he or she is special and can only be understood by other special people or institutions

Requires constant attention and admiration from others

Has unreasonable expectations of favorable treatment

Takes advantage of others to reach his or her own goals

Disregards the feelings of others, lacks empathy

Is often envious of others or believes other people are envious of him or her
Shows arrogant behaviors and attitudes

50 to 75 percent of the people diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder are male. Additionally, it is common for many adolescents to display the characteristics listed above; this does not indicate that they will later develop narcissistic personality disorder.

Causes

Causes of narcissistic personality disorder are not yet well-understood. Genetic and biological factors as well as environment and early life experiences are all thought to play a role in the development of this condition.
Treatments

Treatment for narcissistic personality disorder can be challenging because people with this condition present with a great deal of grandiosity and defensiveness, which makes it difficult for them to acknowledge problems and vulnerabilities. Individual and group psychotherapy may be useful in helping people with narcissistic personality disorder relate to others in a healthier and more compassionate way. Mentalization-based therapy, transference-focused psychotherapy, and schema-focused psychotherapy have all been suggested as effective ways of treating narcissistic personality disorder.

Yes, I do... Wounded Bear May 2018 #1
I think they can, but few of them want to. nt. Mariana May 2018 #2
Exactly this.... Adrahil May 2018 #14
I think this is it... Phentex May 2018 #17
Of course. LisaM May 2018 #3
Exactly. Darn, I'm old now and I'm as flexible as in my 20's. I think a lot of it has to do RKP5637 May 2018 #30
You heard wrong, behavior and actions can change at any age.. beachbum bob May 2018 #4
Change is possible at any age. In_The_Wind May 2018 #5
I have changed more in my 40's than I did in my 30's and its accelerating for me... Moostache May 2018 #6
Absolutely. I'm "older," and seem constantly to be changing my ways. Glorfindel May 2018 #7
+1 ooky May 2018 #11
You can if you want to, no matter how old you are. The Velveteen Ocelot May 2018 #8
This! Exactly. smirkymonkey May 2018 #21
Well said!!! n/t RKP5637 May 2018 #31
Its not their age that keeps them from being able to change, ooky May 2018 #9
Only if they are interested in doing so Maeve May 2018 #10
Trump and Narcissistic Personality Disorder Goonch May 2018 #12
Almost 65 here. I accept my changes. Some are bad, but most are for the good. tonyt53 May 2018 #13
Yes ismnotwasm May 2018 #15
Intellectual curiosity Phoenix61 May 2018 #16
Change is not about age. IluvPitties May 2018 #18
+1000 smirkymonkey May 2018 #22
People can change at any time. Whether they want to, or think they need to, is another matter. Hoyt May 2018 #19
Sure. At least some people can. MineralMan May 2018 #20
"Can" change and "want" to change are five different things kydo May 2018 #23
With enough modivation to, yeah Brainfodder May 2018 #24
I'm asking this because of my tRump-supporting sister... cynatnite May 2018 #25
I've lost my siblings. LuckyCharms May 2018 #32
I'm only willing to fix this if she's willing to change her ways... cynatnite May 2018 #34
I'm sorry, and I understand. LuckyCharms May 2018 #36
Not me. No way in hell. I am right. too late. pangaia May 2018 #26
We must be exactly the same. LuckyCharms May 2018 #28
In that case we should never have a discussion about anything. pangaia May 2018 #42
Yes, I'm 59. LuckyCharms May 2018 #27
Insight can happen at any age. But--a caveat. Thirties Child May 2018 #29
Can they? Sure. Downtown Hound May 2018 #33
I do. You just have to be open to new ways of thinking and doing. Solly Mack May 2018 #35
I sincerely believe so! Anon-C May 2018 #37
I haven't really changed since I was 25. I guess I'm stuck now. Lint Head May 2018 #38
To some extent. Jim Lane May 2018 #39
That's true. They're reinforcing their beliefs with each other rather than looking outside... cynatnite May 2018 #40
Only under extreme situations in my opinion. Otherwise no. aikoaiko May 2018 #41
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