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calimary

(80,699 posts)
24. I will forever be bothered by the way he threw away his first wife.
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 11:54 AM
Aug 2018

She was a beautiful model and devoted wife who waited for him while he went to Vietnam. But during his absence she was in a traumatic car accident that messed up her beautiful body, especially her long shapely legs. When he finally came home to her, he didn’t REALLY come home - to HER. He soon became enamored of a pretty young blonde from a fabulously wealthy family and threw over Wife #1, making the newer younger prettier woman Wife #2. They married a mere couple of months or so after his divorce was final.

I’m certainly no angel myself, but I’m bothered by that. I’ve tried to leaven that with the reminders of his service. He actually DID go over to Vietnam and got his hands dirty - doing the dirty and bloody work that preening vainglorious cowards like donald trump managed to avoid. So I’ll gladly give him that.

I didn’t like most of the votes he cast (I tend not to like whatever it is that republi-CONS support) but occasionally he did the right thing. Like that thumbs-down on the ACA repeal. So I’ll gladly give him that too.

He was a complicated man and admittedly not perfect. He was graceful in defeat, and his moment with that pathetic woman in the red shirt whose idiot “opinion” about Barack Obama’s background he corrected - live, in public, and on camera, was towering and admirable, courageous and honest. I’ll very gladly give him that, too.

I won’t mourn him with eyes glazed over by the soft fog of denial or fantasy about what one WISHES were there. But I will mourn him.

He's pretty much spot on. TreasonousBastard Aug 2018 #1
Well, he was the best of a lousy bunch is all I can say. He had moments. olegramps Aug 2018 #20
"They need the lie." that one sentence is all that needs be said. Autumn Aug 2018 #2
There's been a huge mythos created about John McCain Proud Liberal Dem Aug 2018 #3
I agree with that. And when you stop to remember how rethugs vilified John Kerry in 2004 it burns. Texin Aug 2018 #11
I didn't think of it that way Proud Liberal Dem Aug 2018 #18
Rudie always keeps it malaise Aug 2018 #4
As opposed to Rudy. dchill Aug 2018 #21
DUzy malaise Aug 2018 #25
I remember in a debate Obama pointed out McCain couldn't answer the question how many homes he owned jodymarie aimee Aug 2018 #5
Agree. Completely. SammyWinstonJack Aug 2018 #22
Mourning a man who would sometimes put country and decency above party. aikoaiko Aug 2018 #6
Thank you, Rude. GoCubsGo Aug 2018 #7
Spot on. geardaddy Aug 2018 #8
Well said. There is truth in you post and it passes my gut check. c-rational Aug 2018 #9
Americans can overlook or ignore an awful lot to create a Hero. NoMoreRepugs Aug 2018 #10
As usual the dirt is in the details bucolic_frolic Aug 2018 #12
well said kpete Aug 2018 #13
As I get older I paint with a broad brush bucolic_frolic Aug 2018 #16
Thank you, Rude.. Well said. mountain grammy Aug 2018 #14
McCain's vote to repeal the mandate was not the same as repealing the ACA. SunSeeker Aug 2018 #15
Appreciate that McCain could not stomach Trump. PufPuf23 Aug 2018 #17
While people are describing McCain as a hero, we shouldn't forget he voted party line 87% Major Nikon Aug 2018 #19
I will forever be bothered by the way he threw away his first wife. calimary Aug 2018 #24
we also have his views on women's rights. and, I do not forget that he called cindy a c*** niyad Aug 2018 #28
+1000s DinahMoeHum Aug 2018 #33
Spot on Lordquinton Aug 2018 #23
The answer is YES IT IS.. whathehell Aug 2018 #26
big time phoney KG Aug 2018 #27
Thank you very much for posting this. Kind of Blue Aug 2018 #29
Whew. Finally. Solly Mack Aug 2018 #30
Spot on. I always referred to mccain as a political opportunist. nt Javaman Aug 2018 #31
K & R Jokerman Aug 2018 #32
A complicated man zipplewrath Aug 2018 #34
K and R Mosby Aug 2018 #35
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