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NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
24. This is not unique to elite private schools by any means
Thu Sep 20, 2018, 09:31 AM
Sep 2018

I had posted this the other day:

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I went to a small town public high school in Connecticut

it was a mostly white working class/blue collar town at the time and I graduated HS in the mid 80s. Out of around 400 kids total in the high school, I doubt more than a dozen kids were non white. So, about 100 kids per class, and somewhere around 50/50 boys to girls. (The town still has the white blue/collar working class element, but nowadays is a lot more diverse both racially and economically - just checking the numbers from the State Dept of Ed website, the high school now has somewhere closer to 550 kids and maybe 125/130 are not white and a white collar/middle class/upper middle class element as well)

1) When I was in middle school (Grade 6-8), a bunch of friends in town on a Catholic Youth basketball team (not associated with the school, but a lot of the basketball jocks were on both teams) lost a New England tournament championship game because they were hung over from too much drinking the night before the game.

2) While not as violent as holding girls down and covering their mouths, coerced sex was pretty common at high school parties. I was too shy and not cool enough to be invited to these parties, but I've heard the stories from enough reliable kids (boys & girls) that I'm certain the stories were true. I believe at least one girl did file a police report years later because it made the local newspaper, but I have no idea the resolution and I've mostly lost touch with all but a couple of kids from my high school except for the occasional "Happy Birthday" on Facebook.

3) Several years after graduating at a class reunion planning meeting, I found out that a girl I had graduated with had been pregnant when she marched for graduation. She then said that high school administrators at the time gave her trouble for being visibly pregnant, until her mom brought up the fact that she was a nurse at a local hospital and least 9 girls from my class came in and had had abortions. That stunned me at the time - 10 pregnancies out of somewhere around 50 girls in the class.

So, there is no way in my mind that this is something unique to expensive prep school kids - this is a problem across all income levels, I think.

What a piece of work that Mark Judge is! FM123 Sep 2018 #1
Sadly, this story rings true all over the country, in every high school. blm Sep 2018 #2
Thanks. elleng Sep 2018 #3
K&R Solly Mack Sep 2018 #4
How do you read that last sentence? FBaggins Sep 2018 #5
FBaggins...I have exactly the same question... Upthevibe Sep 2018 #7
It has to be the first FBaggins Sep 2018 #8
Me and the Mrs both read it as Stonepounder Sep 2018 #10
I read it as the Dr. Ford incident was a well known story ProudLib72 Sep 2018 #14
That's the way I read it. Cha Sep 2018 #18
That seems really implausible to me FBaggins Sep 2018 #25
When I was in middle school, I heard stories of certain type of conduct that went back Blue_true Sep 2018 #35
My take xxqqqzme Sep 2018 #36
Read it as the former DeminPennswoods Sep 2018 #19
He's not the only who has said they heard of the story of Kanavaugh's attempted rape... brush Sep 2018 #26
Have you seen that he wasn't a student at the time? FBaggins Sep 2018 #27
Maybe, but he mentioned Dr. Ford's story directly, and he's talking about Judge who was said... brush Sep 2018 #28
Which is why my preferred reading makes the most sense. FBaggins Sep 2018 #29
Makes the most sense as interpreted by you. LanternWaste Sep 2018 #32
K&R sheshe2 Sep 2018 #6
I went to an elite private school in CT. in the early 70's.... getagrip_already Sep 2018 #9
This is not unique to elite private schools by any means NewJeffCT Sep 2018 #24
Everyone check out Stone cold Pillar's banner graphic.... KY_EnviroGuy Sep 2018 #11
Wow that is so friggin cool! Everyone should check it out Bradshaw3 Sep 2018 #15
Worth a look! TomVilmer Sep 2018 #21
Make the mini cannon between the legs look like a Mario Bros mushroom.. Amimnoch Sep 2018 #31
Georgetown Prep is a cesspool. Another swamp Hassler Sep 2018 #12
Wow. Just wow. nt Honeycombe8 Sep 2018 #13
K&R smirkymonkey Sep 2018 #16
Kavanaugh said the Dean at Georgetown Prep reminded him of the "What Happens at Georgetown..." line. TheBlackAdder Sep 2018 #17
GP is hiding a lot of embarassing incidents DeminPennswoods Sep 2018 #20
mark judge sounds like a fucking imbecile. Javaman Sep 2018 #22
I like Mike Judge. He's the one who created Idiocracy idcdu Sep 2018 #34
oops. I will fix. Javaman Sep 2018 #37
These Republicans don't ever get to take the moral high ground again. PatrickforO Sep 2018 #23
Mark Judge is a cRaZy drunk n/t KWR65 Sep 2018 #30
Too bad Grassley doesn't care if Mark Judge testifies or not red dog 1 Sep 2018 #33
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