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VOX

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38. I went to a small, semi-rural state college in the late 1960s.
Thu Oct 4, 2018, 11:53 PM
Oct 2018

Beer and weed, hash (when available), Seconal and Darvon washed down with vodka, very iffy acid (I passed), just sticking shit into our faces, from Thursday-Sunday.

We goofed around with cherry bombs, threw patio furniture into the dorm pool, played baseball in the driving rain, soccer in the hallways.

WE WERE LITTLE SHITS! I cop to it, I was high 60% of the time, world events were excessively weird, all branches of service were drafting young men, LBJ dropping out, MLK, Jr. and RFK killed, fucking Nixon, Charles Manson, the Tet Offensive, everything was going to hell at once. We were pushing back against weird times by getting weirder. (See Hunter S. Thompson.)

But here’s the difference: I knew of no one who took advantage of women, let alone assault them. Not saying it didn’t happen, because it probably did, somewhere nearby, even. But the rowdy group I hung with were actually decent kids, having their first taste of freedom. Our dorm was split into wings, one for each gender. One of the few rules we respected was curfew, so as not to get the women written up.

Some really terrific women actually tolerated our group, and they were never disrespected. We had all kinds of co-ed adventures, and there was no grabbing or groping or talking shit, that would not be tolerated— especially while under the influence. We were busy trying to figure out the chords to something off the Beatles White Album. And talking. I’ve never talked so much, and listened more, in my entire life.

Jesus, just tapping this out this recollection makes me want to hop in the hot-tub time machine and return to the late, great, ‘68. (And stay there!)


Your wife is right. Jane Austin Oct 2018 #1
Not only have we all known a Brett Kavanaugh, the odds are very great Arkansas Granny Oct 2018 #2
There's always one of those guys. The Velveteen Ocelot Oct 2018 #3
I WAS the cheerleader Tucker08087 Oct 2018 #7
I figured that would be true too. The Velveteen Ocelot Oct 2018 #9
I was lucky, I think. Tucker08087 Oct 2018 #11
No Truer words ever spoken Voices Of Reason Oct 2018 #35
I was like you. StarryNite Oct 2018 #30
I knew being popular was a lost cause. The Velveteen Ocelot Oct 2018 #31
Don't peak at 17 Mopar151 Oct 2018 #43
Hmmm. So you judge them being fat? LakeArenal Oct 2018 #61
No, the point was that in high school those were the kids who made fun of The Velveteen Ocelot Oct 2018 #62
One very powerful statement. Wellstone ruled Oct 2018 #4
Yes, especially if we went to a Catholic girls' school catrose Oct 2018 #5
Especially if we went to high school anywhere. Entitled party boys are everywhere. n/t pnwmom Oct 2018 #6
I went to an all girls school and also knew the type kimbutgar Oct 2018 #15
One on the Court and one in the White House - two too many eleny Oct 2018 #8
I'll bet Trump will be inviting Kavanaugh and his wife for dinner kskiska Oct 2018 #16
Because it's really zentrum Oct 2018 #26
This is so true! FakeNoose Oct 2018 #10
Same with... zentrum Oct 2018 #27
Yes, we've all been there one way or the other peggysue2 Oct 2018 #12
What a coincidence you should post this. Today I overheard a telephone conversation Vinca Oct 2018 #13
Thank you copperearth Oct 2018 #14
I have been around quite a few. Luckily, I'm an athlete so they ended up flat on their asses mostly. kerry-is-my-prez Oct 2018 #17
I was lucky. I didn't really meet a Brett Kavanaugh type until I got into the work world smirkymonkey Oct 2018 #18
Not just a perv thing, either. Mopar151 Oct 2018 #46
Yes. (nt) ehrnst Oct 2018 #19
Absolutely. And now, almost 50 years later, I remember their faces & names. catbyte Oct 2018 #20
I honestly don't know any guys like Kavanaugh. Zing Zing Zingbah Oct 2018 #21
You think you don't. zentrum Oct 2018 #23
Yeah, I'm a woman Zing Zing Zingbah Oct 2018 #52
Thanks for understanding. zentrum Oct 2018 #53
You did. You just didn't know it at the time. paleotn Oct 2018 #33
Exactly. Haggis for Breakfast Oct 2018 #36
I think devastating zentrum Oct 2018 #22
Absolutely We Did Leith Oct 2018 #24
Exactly right! We all know him MaryMagdaline Oct 2018 #25
Your wife is absolutely correct. Ohiogal Oct 2018 #28
I Would Think All Guys Know One Too ProfessorGAC Oct 2018 #50
Recommended. H2O Man Oct 2018 #29
Like a slimy entitled weasel who can't take no for an answer IronLionZion Oct 2018 #32
Interesting, because... IluvPitties Oct 2018 #34
I've never been sexually assaulted but I knew tons of Brett Kavanaughs. He's only a bit older Neema Oct 2018 #37
I went to a small, semi-rural state college in the late 1960s. VOX Oct 2018 #38
I went to a small town college in the late 70s. TomSlick Oct 2018 #39
To be sure, the "hounds" were off in the distance, talking big. VOX Oct 2018 #40
I knew many like Kavanaugh, and they all ended up doing pretty good. Got lots of dates, too. Midnight Writer Oct 2018 #41
Is there meaning for you in their getting lots of dates? If so, what is it? Squinch Oct 2018 #56
Yes that is a fact....We all know a Brett Kav pioche4 Oct 2018 #42
We All Know A Brett (TheNib) Grokenstein Oct 2018 #44
All too true. TomSlick Oct 2018 #64
To be a Brett Kavanaugh joins HAB911 Oct 2018 #45
I had a roommate after high school... Joe Nation Oct 2018 #47
Hold on there. Weren't you the one who was insisting that we should be compassionate toward Squinch Oct 2018 #57
What a long-time female friend of mine said (her words) Grins Oct 2018 #48
Yes, we've all know at least one, usually several. MoonRiver Oct 2018 #49
My wife was assaulted by a cop. Almost 60 years later... SkipG Oct 2018 #51
Your wife is 100% correct. Texin Oct 2018 #54
Brett Kavanaugh's conmfirmation to the highest court in the land would Nitram Oct 2018 #55
My wife's observation... Loge23 Oct 2018 #58
k and r... Stuart G Oct 2018 #59
...And PUTIN FTW...n/t librechik Oct 2018 #60
A "Friend" (actually a guy I grew up with) The Mouth Oct 2018 #63
I attended a Catholic boys high school and an Ivy League university Fortinbras Armstrong Oct 2018 #65
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