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Horse with no Name

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20. I want to share what a friend wrote about Botham Jean
Wed Sep 25, 2019, 11:52 AM
Sep 2019

Yesterday, I attended the funeral of Botham Shem Jean. It was one of the most moving experiences I have ever had. Botham was a man of God, a graduate of Harding University, a worship leader, and a brother in Christ. We shared the same city and the same small religious tribe. He attended our church a few times.

8 days ago, Botham was murdered in his home. The shooter was not taken into custody until 3 days later. And yesterday, while I was sitting at his memorial service, those in power prepared to release the results of what often happens when African-American men are murdered: a thorough investigation into the life of a victim to criminalize him and somehow help others come to the conclusion that he, because of some flaw, "deserved" the bullet that took his life in his own home.

We don't just murder African-American men. We murder their character. And we continue to justify systems that have continually devalued black bodies from the moment they arrived on our shores on slave ships.

I am a white minister in Dallas. My family has lived here for generations. I have benefited from so much that this city has offered me. But my experience is not the experience of everyone in Dallas.

And I refuse to be silent and complicit any longer. Botham's Memorial Service, along with many other events over the past few years, have unstopped my ears and cleared my eyes.

In his "Letter From a Birmingham Jail," Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. spoke words that still ring true in our day:

"I must confess that over the past few years I have been gravely disappointed with the white moderate. I have almost reached the regrettable conclusion that the Negro's great stumbling block in his stride toward freedom is not the White Citizen's Counciler or the Ku Klux Klanner, but the white moderate, who is more devoted to 'order' than to justice; who prefers a negative peace which is the absence of tension to a positive peace which is the presence of justice..."

I want to challenge my white brothers and sisters in Christ to be willing to speak up for justice. May we be willing to stand in solidarity. May we be willing to listen without being defensive.

The voice of our brother's blood cries out to us from the ground. May justice roll down like a river. Let us do what we must to tear down any dam constructed to block the flow of that river.

That was a creative narrative. Newest Reality Sep 2019 #1
What do you mean? She admitted she had been on the phone with her lover. brush Sep 2019 #12
What? Newest Reality Sep 2019 #16
Sorry if I misunderstood but it seems she was distracted by the call with her lover. brush Sep 2019 #17
I agree. Newest Reality Sep 2019 #18
Right. She was on the phone. NCLefty Sep 2019 #25
I can believe she went to the wrong apt, I just don't understand how a police... Thomas Hurt Sep 2019 #2
So what? 2naSalit Sep 2019 #3
I am starting to think the DA is sandbagging exboyfil Sep 2019 #4
That was my first read. OneBro Sep 2019 #28
Defense is trying to get her off - She "firmly and reasonably" acted in fear for her own life: dalton99a Sep 2019 #5
Her partner was trying to get her off, too. TheCowsCameHome Sep 2019 #7
+1 dalton99a Sep 2019 #8
Her blood left her brain and went somewhere else IronLionZion Sep 2019 #10
Good one! n/t customerserviceguy Sep 2019 #15
I just learned that firefly females will send WhiteTara Sep 2019 #6
Martin Rivera, her hot and steamy lover IronLionZion Sep 2019 #9
I hope she goes to prison for decades Stargazer09 Sep 2019 #11
That's the prosecutor's case IronLionZion Sep 2019 #14
Agreed Stargazer09 Sep 2019 #24
It is in Texas unfortunately exboyfil Sep 2019 #21
You're right Stargazer09 Sep 2019 #26
Sex has nothing to do with this horrid crime. Tipperary Sep 2019 #13
That is just...sad. I feel so bad for that guy's family. :( Catherine Vincent Sep 2019 #19
I want to share what a friend wrote about Botham Jean Horse with no Name Sep 2019 #20
Except Botham Jean was not African-American .. HipChick Sep 2019 #29
Stage is being set for her to get away with it rainbow4321 Sep 2019 #22
I read this as her lover wouldn't cover up her crime and since she's going to jail she's going TeamPooka Sep 2019 #23
Who amongst us hasn't been so horny and distracted dewsgirl Sep 2019 #27
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