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In reply to the discussion: This message was self-deleted by its author [View all]coti
(4,612 posts)2. This makes me so sorry to hear, Softy. I do think it's good to look at it as an early retirement.
It's good you'll get Medi-Cal, that's one less thing. And you'll be able to manage on that.
I'm hoping your home situation is stable.
Connect with county and regional services if you haven't already, they should be able to provide some kind of in-home assistance. Apply for Social Security if you haven't already- could be a 2+ year wait.
But I think it's good to look at it as early retirement because that will avoid the trap of self-pity. That's what you want to stay out of, though it can feel really good. Instead, to avoid what you're afraid of, keep pushing, keep problem solving, keep finding resources, keep smiling and bringing people into your life. It's not over.
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This makes me so sorry to hear, Softy. I do think it's good to look at it as an early retirement.
coti
Jan 2020
#2
Keep in good touch with your friends from work, too, they could be key in maybe helping you find
coti
Jan 2020
#4
They allowed him to work from home for 7 years without ever having to leave the house
MichMan
Jan 2020
#54
What products where you supporting? Do you have a current CV? I was in tech support but now retired.
usaf-vet
Jan 2020
#14
Stock grants should vest if you lose your job. I'd challenge that if not the case.
BSdetect
Jan 2020
#16
So sorry. That's tough. Are you eligible to collect Social Security disability benefits?
Fla Dem
Jan 2020
#23
Really sorry. If you are approved for permanent disability, I think you get Medicare.
Hoyt
Jan 2020
#26
I am so sorry to hear this and sincerely hoping that some safety net somewhere
Marie Marie
Jan 2020
#31
First hired first fired is the rule for anyone below VP grade in most US corporations
McCamy Taylor
Jan 2020
#32