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In reply to the discussion: I'm a GRANDMA!! My son and his husband have adopted a beautiful baby boy! [View all]llashram
(6,265 posts)does not mean you are right in your "moral" rejection or the rudeness you used to register your objection to this adoption. You are entitled to all your experiences related to the adoption process that helps at-risk children. Your judgements against this adoption hold no weight and have a ring of false empathy and more like contention for contention's sake.
Knowing about being adopted into a loving family, as I know the adoption process, from the first-hand experience of my life, the birth mother has not proven one iota of responsible behaviour in having 5 children who were born at risk because she showed no love in poisoning the fetuses she carried.
He pain is real as an addicted person and I hope she gets the help she needs, yet she had no right to put her child at risk as she did, period.
From what can garner from the posters loving enthusiasm of becoming a grandmother, the child now has a fighting chance to have a normal upbringing with love and caring in its life.