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KentuckyWoman

(6,679 posts)
Sat Jan 2, 2021, 05:53 PM Jan 2021

Do you feel safe calling 911? [View all]

Last edited Sat Jan 2, 2021, 11:34 PM - Edit history (1)

I chose not to call 911 on Thurs night.

Buying gas around 7pm. A couple in another car in the gas station having a loud fight in the car. A good 10 min of them yelling and pushing at each other. I kept thinking I should call for help but couldn't make myself do it. Then he punched her in the head pretty hard. .... Luckily a couple big guys came from another lane, talked the guy out of that car and a woman was checking on her ...

Luckily some beefy guys stepped up for her, but I feel so bad. Guilty even.

We need police. We really do. But it needs to be police we can ALL trust. If a older white lady in suburban Ohio is afraid of who the cops will shoot before knowing the situation, how much worse in urban America?

It should never have been allowed to get to this point in the first place. Even if we have to tackle one police department at a time, we need to fix this. NOW.

Edit to add... I guess I was not real clear. The police were called, but not until it went from yelling to punching. If one of us had called when it was only yelling, we might have prevented the physical violence. That is why I am upset. Hesitating because of concern about the police was an issue for me. I posted to get a perspective.

Thanks to everyone who responded. I have taken your comments to heart.



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Do you feel safe calling 911? [View all] KentuckyWoman Jan 2021 OP
do you know how many 911 calls are made Skittles Jan 2021 #1
I don't. I expect it's rare. KentuckyWoman Jan 2021 #2
I would have called 911 Skittles Jan 2021 #4
If I see a man punch a woman, I'm calling the police without a second's delay. cwydro Jan 2021 #19
I don't think the non-caller was weighing the possibilities angstlessk Jan 2021 #3
I called them for an elderly person falling treestar Jan 2021 #5
I'm in an almost all white area in Idaho. It's common knowledge that if it's a domestic brewens Jan 2021 #6
We just had a situation in the last month of shoot first ask 2nd. KentuckyWoman Jan 2021 #11
So you just assume the "big guys" would handle the situation correctly? cwydro Jan 2021 #20
Be assured. KentuckyWoman Jan 2021 #33
Here, I Suppose So ProfessorGAC Jan 2021 #7
Did they bring your large pie with the works? True Dough Jan 2021 #9
Now That You Mention It ProfessorGAC Jan 2021 #12
Did you check their pockets True Dough Jan 2021 #14
I was involved in a car accident a few weeks ago. Dem2theMax Jan 2021 #8
I respect your decision True Dough Jan 2021 #13
Yes. Luckily for me, my situation was not nearly as bad as what you went through. Dem2theMax Jan 2021 #17
Glad to hear it won't be an ongoing hassle for you True Dough Jan 2021 #31
I would have called in that situation... demmiblue Jan 2021 #10
I reckon by my personal experience it's about 60/40 for the police improving the ultimate outcome... hunter Jan 2021 #28
I have never called 911. But my phone did, twice. Cops showed up both times progree Jan 2021 #15
I used to have 911 speed dialed on my landline Bayard Jan 2021 #22
Sheriff's deputies showed up at my house answering to a 911 call. marie999 Jan 2021 #26
This message was self-deleted by its author progree Jan 2021 #16
My granddaughter, who is 30, was drinking with some friends in a bar a few years ago Mr.Bill Jan 2021 #18
Yes, in an emergency, because I'm an older White Tom Rinaldo Jan 2021 #21
I've seen the police shoot people I wouldn't have shot... hunter Jan 2021 #23
The system is working as it was designed. It can't be "fixed" or reformed. WhiskeyGrinder Jan 2021 #24
This reminds me of the Kitty Genovese story. Later to be debunked, but still. cwydro Jan 2021 #25
you did... myohmy2 Jan 2021 #27
I don't feel right about calling 911 because, like you, I'm afraid I'm putting someone in danger Empowerer Jan 2021 #29
I know a woman who was last seen arguing with her boyfriend at a gas station 5 years ago. Kaleva Jan 2021 #30
An estimated 240 million calls are made to 9-1-1 in the U.S. each year. Klaralven Jan 2021 #32
We're they black? lilmamba Jan 2021 #34
I've Called RobinA Jan 2021 #35
Yep, I do. I called them 3 mos ago. Duppers Jan 2021 #36
Of course I do. I'm not about to do nothing while someone is being beaten! nt Raine Jan 2021 #37
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