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Ms. Toad

(34,066 posts)
13. Not charges - but his children were briefly taken away from him.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 05:18 PM
Feb 2021

It appears he bought his way out of it.

If you read the article I linked to, he admits much of it - he just disagrees that his method of disciplining children is inappropriate.

The empty fig newton stapled to the child's shirt was what triggered the call to CPS that resulted in removing all 13 children from his home briefly.

His acknowledgement of the substance of some of the accusations:

Besides, Gary Gates has some plausible deniability of his own.

Yes, he has administered ipecac syrup to two of his 13 children on, he thinks, four occasions over the years. Little Lexie sometimes eats whole pecans off the ground on the Gates property, and Travis once ate a whole loaf of moldy bread out of a garbage can. That's what ipecac syrup is for.

Yes, he once put a pair of T.J.'s plastic toy handcuffs on Travis, for about 30 minutes, after a family discussion of a newspaper account of a California man who received a mandatory 20-year sentence for stealing a pizza. Gary says he wanted to show Travis something of what it might feel like to have his freedom taken away if he kept stealing food. The spanking "board" is a paddle. Travis is not weighed every day, only when he appears bloated from gorging, and he is weighed on a bathroom scale that doesn't even register ounces. Yes, Gary kicked Travis, with the side of his foot on the rump, to get him moving. Yes, he kicked a chair out from under him and pushed him to the wall. "I meant to seem very angry and threatening to him, which I believe I achieved." When Gary suggested the wrappers-stapled-to-shirt punishment, Travis cried, and this was encouraging to his parents, who had struggled to break through Travis's lack of remorse, and Melissa approved the tactic.


Well, we all have different resources at our disposal so I might not blame this guy for using abqtommy Feb 2021 #1
In his case, a private JET. NM Grins Feb 2021 #10
I would never vote for such a lying piece of crap...I hope Texas throws these people out. Demsrule86 Feb 2021 #18
Another GQP coward throws his family under the bus jpak Feb 2021 #2
THIS malaise Feb 2021 #22
What is "wife illness" ? Rustyeye77 Feb 2021 #3
This message was self-deleted by its author Prof. Toru Tanaka Feb 2021 #29
IF it is true that his daughter is handicapped and his wife was ill - harumph Feb 2021 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author pinkstarburst Feb 2021 #9
Yikes! LeftInTX Feb 2021 #14
I'll give him a pass. Ilsa Feb 2021 #25
oh dear Skittles Feb 2021 #31
My psychiatrist just upped Ilsa Feb 2021 #34
I cannot imagine what kind of people work with dementia patients Skittles Feb 2021 #37
Fine, if his story is true. Mr.Bill Feb 2021 #5
He and his wife have 11 adoptive children and frogmarch Feb 2021 #6
Whoa. Rustyeye77 Feb 2021 #8
This may change your mind. Ms. Toad Feb 2021 #11
I Hope That Isn't True ProfessorGAC Feb 2021 #12
Not charges - but his children were briefly taken away from him. Ms. Toad Feb 2021 #13
Benefits of fostering then adopting in Texas... littlemissmartypants Feb 2021 #26
Human trafficking for profit. joshcryer Feb 2021 #36
It did! WTF! frogmarch Feb 2021 #16
All I was looking for was what kind of handicap his daughter had. Ms. Toad Feb 2021 #17
You're right. I'm not going to cut him much slack. Ilsa Feb 2021 #35
He's also sitting on a bajillion US American Dollar Clams. Act_of_Reparation Feb 2021 #20
Please excuse my ignorance but what's a dollar clam? nt littlemissmartypants Feb 2021 #23
The current exchange rate of US American Dollar Clams to US Dollars is... Act_of_Reparation Feb 2021 #24
HA! Got it! littlemissmartypants Feb 2021 #27
Maybe Florida can be become the new Trumpfuckistan... Thomas Hurt Feb 2021 #7
Did the round trip ticket include the free multigraincracker Feb 2021 #15
i thought all us citizens had to be tested before returing to the us. AllaN01Bear Feb 2021 #19
I am fine with his family taking off. Him not so much. SlogginThroughIt Feb 2021 #21
I agree, but RicROC Feb 2021 #32
Dumber Than A Sack Of Rocks DallasNE Feb 2021 #28
why wouldn't he explain this stuff BEFORE taking the trip Skittles Feb 2021 #30
Maybe he should quit the Texas House so he "can spend more time with his family." LastLiberal in PalmSprings Feb 2021 #33
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