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In reply to the discussion: Ob/gyn perspective on abortion... [View all]Bernardo de La Paz
(50,321 posts)62. Presumes I said you said it. "women will keep losing", no if/and/but, is denying hope
I said you denied hope, which you did by no "if", "and", or "but". I did not say you said "there is no hope".
I wrote
if YOU have abandoned hope it does not help anyone who still has hope to go saying there is NO hope.
which refers to you denying hope in your absurdly terse absolutist post that started the sub-thread.
Sure, I assert that denying hope in the way you did is equivalent to saying there is no hope.
When you write words, we only have those words. We do not read minds. When you write tersely, we can only take it exactly the way you have written. It was gloomy to say the least, which is a defensible position, but the bold bald defeatism of it is not defensible. If you mean there is hope, then don't shut it out and use only nihilistic words of doom.
There is a bottom line reason women will keep losing this relentless war on their bodies.
"bottom line" admits no alternatives.
"keep losing" admits no chance of success. It is not "mostly lose" or "lose so often" or "lose until we stop" this war.
"relentless" admits no chance of relaxation or truce or dissolution of the conflict. (There should be no truce.) It admits only perpetual endless war.
Three ways your post is defeatist and got the rejoinder it deserved: "Okay doomer".
You backtracked your absolutist statement only when you were called on it.
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There is a bottom line reason women will keep losing this relentless war on their bodies.
ancianita
May 2021
#2
The 21st Century context of women's hopes and dreams is one thing. For the record I support
ancianita
May 2021
#31
Thank you for a thoughtful response, but if YOU have abandoned hope, please don't push that here
Bernardo de La Paz
May 2021
#34
Okay, the poster confused me by saying "in bold". I didn't think to look for capitalization
Bernardo de La Paz
May 2021
#64
Quote where I said "there is no hope." I in fact said, "The 21st Century context of women's hopes an
ancianita
May 2021
#60
Presumes I said you said it. "women will keep losing", no if/and/but, is denying hope
Bernardo de La Paz
May 2021
#62
Didn't know what you mean other than the clear meaning of the words "women will keep losing"
Bernardo de La Paz
May 2021
#71
Realism is not absolutism. Realism acknowledges opposition but mixes it with hope
Bernardo de La Paz
May 2021
#85
Not really. I thought feminists might get it, absent further detailing. Not implying that you're not
ancianita
May 2021
#33
Feminists got it 150 years ago and 100 and 50. They do not get absolutist doomism
Bernardo de La Paz
May 2021
#35
They have made progress in spite of forces arrayed against them, and because they're okay with
ancianita
May 2021
#39
Dismissing your absolutist conclusion "bottom line ... women will keep losing"
Bernardo de La Paz
May 2021
#41
You're rejecting what you think is an absolutist conclusion. It's not. The bottom line statement
ancianita
May 2021
#51
Perhaps you might knock off making terse absolutist doomer statements to start debate. . . nt
Bernardo de La Paz
May 2021
#52
Or you could simply ask what the statement I made means. As in ASK. You started the debate
ancianita
May 2021
#61
You tossed a bomb into the thread. I have no obligation to ask. Your words were clear.
Bernardo de La Paz
May 2021
#63
No need to ask what "women will keep losing" means. It is unambiguous
Bernardo de La Paz
May 2021
#72
Readers don't read for writers' benefit. Writers write for readers' benefit. . . . nt
Bernardo de La Paz
May 2021
#84
"bottom line ... women will keep losing" is absolutist. Was no "if", "and", or "but". . . . nt
Bernardo de La Paz
May 2021
#53
I was off. It was over 200 years ago. I said "feminists got it", not women.
Bernardo de La Paz
May 2021
#54
I remember when I was in nursing school and working OB and we had an shy 11 year old girl
flying_wahini
May 2021
#10
and pregnancy could kill her. Yet, these fanatics have made NO EXCEPTION for
CharleyDog
May 2021
#40
In a rabidly anti-abortion state, every pregnancy that doesn't go full-term...
Girard442
May 2021
#16
I have a daughter who is severely retarded by genetic anomaly and my sister in law asked me
demigoddess
May 2021
#87