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MyMission

(1,850 posts)
18. "...if we become indifferent to their suffering, we become them."
Sun Aug 29, 2021, 11:30 AM
Aug 2021

Absolutely agree, and thanks for sharing. I was just thinking something along those lines.
Yet another challenge as we (collectively) are exhausted, and many are feeling the loss of compassion, empathy, patience and gratitude; a hardening of our hearts.

It's a pandemic, not a war. (It should be a war against the pandemic.) It won't just disappear, and can't be conquered in an instant. The world, and our country are full of many different "types" of people. Aside from getting everyone vaccinated and using precautions until then, we've got to be diligent to not become polarized, because that erodes our psyche and society, in my opinion.

I don't believe in the devil, per se, but there are dark forces that seize every opportunity to sow chaos and division to gain power and leverage. (Think GOP, for example) Good/bad, democrat/republican, blue/red, us/them, vaxed/unvaxed (which includes children under 12), black/white, and so on. I have to stop myself from thinking along those lines too much, falling prey to feelings of blame and anger. They do come, but I've got this community to vent and find others who are having those moments.

We've had 18 months with no end in sight, although many fell into the trap of believing it would be over once the vaccine was available. Vaccines always take time/years to circulate and become maximally effective against a pandemic, especially with mutations. We all need to "embrace" a new normal of precautions with consideration for others. Not all will, but eventually enough shall.
We the vaccinated have more protection against severe illness. That's a blessing, at least.
It's important to count our blessings.

I just turned 60, don't have kids or a spouse, or living parents so I don't have the worry or concerns many have, of their loved ones being exposed. I do have a friend with a young child who started homeschooling late 2019, pre-covid and they're doing great. A close cousin had covid twice; February 2020, and July 2021, hospitalized both times, mild COPD got worse and she was immunocompromised from first bought. She's making plans to get out of Florida, moving closer to me which I look forward to. Glad your neighbors and your cat are doing well.

I've worked part-time retail for 15 years in an old democratic family run store, and have continued to wear a mask as has one boss. The other boss and several coworkers stopped for a while but resumed when the CDC recommended it. We're all vaccinated, but our red NC county vax rate is just above 50%. The town is holding their annual labor day festival this year, 4 days of huge crowds, main street closed for 10 blocks. I work extra days for this. Folks exposed on Friday will be spreading it by Sunday, both vaxed and unvaxed. Not looking forward to it, because we know the bulk of the attendees are not of the cautious variety (to put it delicately).

I'm going to ask my bosses about putting the masks required sign back on the door, if it's not up on Tuesday when I'm back. They were talking about it, so they probably will.




It's so easy to blame the victims because we believe we are in control Maeve Aug 2021 #1
"...if we become indifferent to their suffering, we become them." MyMission Aug 2021 #18
Thank you Maeve Aug 2021 #20
To me, the idea of air travel is literally insane. lagomorph777 Aug 2021 #33
Due to the onset timing, she probably got infected in Alaska, not on the plane Maeve Aug 2021 #36
"Hundreds of thousands of white people .... didn't take Covid seriously when it was seen 3Hotdogs Aug 2021 #2
Depraved indifference to life by some does NOT mean by all. Hortensis Aug 2021 #3
Holding those truths to be self-evident is what makes us human and humane. Lonestarblue Aug 2021 #5
Better education, yes, but our far-right crazies reject all education Hortensis Aug 2021 #10
I took that statement a bit differently... Wounded Bear Aug 2021 #12
I can't see it. Then all lives don't matter? I'd guess if it was a lie Hortensis Aug 2021 #16
No, the point being that those who respond "All lives matter" to "black lives matter" Rabrrrrrr Aug 2021 #22
Oh, a W-on-B racism take. Got it. Dumb me, took long enough. Hortensis Aug 2021 #23
The real truth is that they hate themselves, and project that toward others... Wounded Bear Aug 2021 #28
And fear, lots of fear. Hortensis Aug 2021 #30
They fear being exposed for the weak, selfish individuals they are... Wounded Bear Aug 2021 #32
No doubt. Barricaded behind mental walls, many must suspect Hortensis Aug 2021 #35
I Think You Missed It, Hortensis ProfessorGAC Aug 2021 #25
Right, and that's true. They are the same people. It's really worth Hortensis Aug 2021 #26
Watch Bill Maher TheDemsshouldhireme Aug 2021 #4
Is he wrong? cinematicdiversions Aug 2021 #21
I consider my obesity as one of my co-morbitities... Wounded Bear Aug 2021 #29
I'm so old that I remember when the GOP considered themselves to be "pro-life" LymphocyteLover Aug 2021 #6
Don't kid yourself, they still do think of themselves as "pro life"... Wounded Bear Aug 2021 #13
It's getting harder and harder to maintain the pretense, I think LymphocyteLover Aug 2021 #24
Religious nuts thrive on paradox...nt Wounded Bear Aug 2021 #27
True-- they will cling on to the anti-abortion thing desperately, as twisted as LymphocyteLover Aug 2021 #31
Premise, title, is dead on right. jaxexpat Aug 2021 #7
Not even their own white lives matter. They are willing to kill their children to own libruhls. . nt Bernardo de La Paz Aug 2021 #8
It's raging harder in Trump counties than Biden counties IronLionZion Aug 2021 #9
Willful ignorance is also toxic, and goes hand in hand with indifference. patphil Aug 2021 #11
"Indifference is toxic" - Interesting article Soph - Thanks for posting. c-rational Aug 2021 #14
Excuse me, but "A combination of racism, classism, ageism, and ableism"... MrModerate Aug 2021 #15
Yea I think the writer missed the irony off that. fescuerescue Aug 2021 #34
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2021 #17
So well put leighbythesea2 Aug 2021 #19
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