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Efilroft Sul

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37. I surprised myself by joining Delta Tau Delta, probably because I'm not much of a joiner.
Wed Sep 15, 2021, 06:25 PM
Sep 2021

The men in our chapter were hard to stereotype ("jock house," "geek house," "stoner house&quot ) because the house had all three of the aforementioned types, plus military, DJs and rockers, hunters, D&D players, etc. Half the guys were cool and half the guys were assholes (and still are), but I grew tremendously as a person taking on responsibilities and learning how to have a blast. It was a great experience for me and I wouldn't change a thing.

I'm not sure if I would recommend Greek life to my sons, who go off to college soon enough. But in looking at promotional materials from colleges and universities, and having written a lot of their websites in the last five years, schools have placed more emphasis on student life in the last 20 years. It seems as if many have broken the power of the fraternities and sororities as the center of social life. And I think that's a good thing.

Possibly one the strangest DU polls yet n/t leftstreet Sep 2021 #1
Thanks! NurseJackie Sep 2021 #2
Thankfully, my college didn't have them. Ocelot II Sep 2021 #3
You made me smile with that one! NurseJackie Sep 2021 #4
I could be obnoxious without being drunk. rsdsharp Sep 2021 #44
Same Dorian Gray Sep 2021 #60
Greek organizations in school... NewHendoLib Sep 2021 #5
First of all, it's quite an expense to join one jimfields33 Sep 2021 #42
I didn't get the appeal either kcr Sep 2021 #58
I was in the Beta Club in high school. I guess that counts. Glorfindel Sep 2021 #6
Thanks! NurseJackie Sep 2021 #20
No, but . . . gratuitous Sep 2021 #7
University of Illinois had one of the biggest systems in the world... jcgoldie Sep 2021 #8
Yup. I went to fall rush once and quickly realized I couldn't afford it. milestogo Sep 2021 #40
I was invited to join Phi Beta Kappa . . . Journeyman Sep 2021 #9
That's a collegiate honor society DenaliDemocrat Sep 2021 #47
I would never join any organisation who would have someone like me as a member Ron Obvious Sep 2021 #10
Hi, Groucho! NurseJackie Sep 2021 #18
I was a Kappa Kappa Gamma in College smirkymonkey Sep 2021 #11
If I had, it would have been Lambda Lambda Lambda DFW Sep 2021 #12
... NurseJackie Sep 2021 #13
My college actually banned them obamanut2012 Sep 2021 #14
Interesting. I suppose any club could be "elitist" even without Greek letters. NurseJackie Sep 2021 #16
It was because not everyone could join obamanut2012 Sep 2021 #61
school daze JustAnotherGen Sep 2021 #15
I was in Tau Kappa Epsilon fraternity's "Little Sisters" sorority in college. ARPad95 Sep 2021 #17
No ProfessorGAC Sep 2021 #19
Unofficial Delta Tau Chi BootinUp Sep 2021 #21
Yes. It was the 60's at a Southern Univ moonscape Sep 2021 #22
Sometimes you don't know until you try it... NurseJackie Sep 2021 #23
Does family count? N/t getagrip_already Sep 2021 #24
I'd say... yes! NurseJackie Sep 2021 #26
In that case.... getagrip_already Sep 2021 #28
No, never appealed to me. I went to a fairly large uni, about 40,000 student, and I was in beaglelover Sep 2021 #25
Message auto-removed Name removed Sep 2021 #27
Sig Ep's for about five months. LanternWaste Sep 2021 #29
Yes edhopper Sep 2021 #30
Not allowed where I went LeftInTX Sep 2021 #31
Pi Tau Sigma BornADemocrat Sep 2021 #32
I think that qualifies. NurseJackie Sep 2021 #33
Frats were big at my college, but not my thing. Hoyt Sep 2021 #34
Those things are for rich kids Bettie Sep 2021 #35
Lounge? Totally Tunsie Sep 2021 #36
I surprised myself by joining Delta Tau Delta, probably because I'm not much of a joiner. Efilroft Sul Sep 2021 #37
Great description and analysis/summary... NurseJackie Sep 2021 #38
Nope. Xolodno Sep 2021 #39
Nope... Groucho said it best whistler162 Sep 2021 #41
That's a great line... NurseJackie Sep 2021 #46
I'm assuming you are asking about social, rather than honorary, Greek organizations? Klaralven Sep 2021 #43
Yes... but, I'm interested in anything you'd like to share. NurseJackie Sep 2021 #45
Tau Beta Pi Klaralven Sep 2021 #48
... NurseJackie Sep 2021 #53
I belonged in high school. Our big event was a trip to NYC with just two chaperones. gldstwmn Sep 2021 #49
No, lived at my grandparents home Retired Engineer Bob Sep 2021 #50
Are you talking Frats and Sororities? TlalocW Sep 2021 #51
Originally, yes. But I'm open to broadening the discussion. NurseJackie Sep 2021 #52
There was a fake frat on my campus TlalocW Sep 2021 #55
I think it should! That's hysterical! NurseJackie Sep 2021 #57
Phi Delta Theta-Wow-26%-Pretty High Percentage for Us Liberal Socialists Stallion Sep 2021 #54
I joined a group known as Independents tirebiter Sep 2021 #56
Yes. College honor society. Owl Sep 2021 #59
I went to a small but noted party college in the 90s, the Greeks were insane Tarc Sep 2021 #62
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