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Ms. Toad

(36,280 posts)
22. That depends.
Wed Dec 22, 2021, 08:41 PM
Dec 2021

There are two distinct marital "privileges."

Cawthorn can prevent her from testifying about anything he communicated to her after they married, in reliance on the confidence of that relationship. Even if she wants to testify. That right is limited to communications and survives divorce.

A second "privilege" is the right not to testify against your husband during the marriage. That "privileged" is broader (it covers all adversarial testimony) and narrower (it ends when the marriage ends).

Both are state rules - but most states have some variation on both. The former is a privilege; the latter is a presumption of incompetence which the testifying spouse can waive.

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Womp! Womp! nt Heartstrings Dec 2021 #1
I do not blame her. Texaswitchy Dec 2021 #2
ROFL...The only question is what is it that she just found out that sent her screaming to hlthe2b Dec 2021 #3
That he is an egoistical a**h***. Butterflylady Dec 2021 #59
This perhaps.... Nevilledog Dec 2021 #65
Eww. He's just gross. Like the worst of every blatant misogynistic "Frat Rat" I ever encountered hlthe2b Dec 2021 #72
I suspect there may be an element of "Did I actually marry this fucknozzle?" involved. Aristus Dec 2021 #4
now it's I dun't !!! monkeyman1 Dec 2021 #30
She must not Rebl2 Dec 2021 #32
Maybe it just took her a while to come to her senses? 😁 ShazzieB Dec 2021 #40
Maybe made a Chester move on one of her teen relatives? alphafemale Dec 2021 #5
That's the other one. Haggard Celine Dec 2021 #49
Reminder that the Jan 6 committee already subpoenaed records from 10 members including Cawthorn..... riversedge Dec 2021 #6
If it was truly his marriage or his job, his wife should have taken one for America Poiuyt Dec 2021 #7
Did she discover that he is a total wanker, then? Wingus Dingus Dec 2021 #8
A wife can't testify against her hubby, but what about an ex-wife? FakeNoose Dec 2021 #9
A wife can testify against her husband if she chooses to. She can't be forced to testify. ZonkerHarris Dec 2021 #13
That depends. Ms. Toad Dec 2021 #22
isn't getting divorsed a sin against his deeply held religious beliefs????????? Takket Dec 2021 #10
Only if you believe he has deeply held religious beliefs... Caliman73 Dec 2021 #16
Or a micrometer lonely bird Dec 2021 #57
Or at least a violation of family values!! n/t Ms. Toad Dec 2021 #23
Yep, he's the one who described his honeymoon as "service as a husband." tanyev Dec 2021 #11
Uh, not to be indelicate, but.... moose65 Dec 2021 #28
Yeah, on top of being a special kind of douche waste, Mr. Evil Dec 2021 #41
Ugh. 😖 ShazzieB Dec 2021 #48
Interesting moose65 Dec 2021 #76
You mean he is a paraplegic? n/t msfiddlestix Dec 2021 #58
crap , the laptop got a beer bath !! good one ! monkeyman1 Dec 2021 #33
She didn't want to raise a monster with him? Nt Baked Potato Dec 2021 #12
Must have been the nazi bdsm cosplay. harumph Dec 2021 #14
I hope she gets a barracuda lawyer! NT raccoon Dec 2021 #15
So she finally came to her senses? smirkymonkey Dec 2021 #17
He dropped out of college, divorced after 8 months of marriage, Sanity Claws Dec 2021 #18
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Dec 2021 #37
She was probably tired of his bullshit. LonePirate Dec 2021 #19
One thing for sure, that moron did NOT write that statement. BlackSkimmer Dec 2021 #20
Can that boy even read? Generic Brad Dec 2021 #38
I almost said, "Did you mean Goebert?" ShazzieB Dec 2021 #51
Hillary's basket of deplorables - now in Congress. Smh. BlackSkimmer Dec 2021 #55
Job over marriage...true Christian family values Thomas Hurt Dec 2021 #21
Arbeit Macht Frei Captain Zero Dec 2021 #50
His hero Adolph waited until the very end to marry his sweetie. keithbvadu2 Dec 2021 #24
I think Cawthorn deserves all the respect and privacy SCantiGOP Dec 2021 #25
I second that! Haggard Celine Dec 2021 #56
Ooooooooof greenjar_01 Dec 2021 #26
Stupid to marry him in the first place. roamer65 Dec 2021 #27
"His job and marriage were incompatible, so he chooses his job!" soldierant Dec 2021 #29
Who the hell would marry that clown in the first place? paleotn Dec 2021 #31
Can't say I blame her Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Dec 2021 #34
I'm sure the Lobbyist provided "Companionship" has nothing to do with it. WarGamer Dec 2021 #35
did she suddenly realize he was Madison Cawthorn? mnmoderatedem Dec 2021 #36
Well that takes one of the republican's favorite lines from the board Rural_Progressive Dec 2021 #39
Will he Traildogbob Dec 2021 #42
Because he has the handwriting of a 4th grader? NurseJackie Dec 2021 #43
She had a momentary lapse, things happen ...to everybody ... UTUSN Dec 2021 #44
Gee, that's a shame ailsagirl Dec 2021 #45
Madison And Humanity COL Mustard Dec 2021 #46
Let's hope that no children were conceived during this brief interlude. No Vested Interest Dec 2021 #47
GOP family values hard at work RainCaster Dec 2021 #52
She probably simply sobered up. nt Progressive Jones Dec 2021 #53
Pres. Biden lost his wife and daughter in am auto accident not long after getting elected to TeamProg Dec 2021 #54
LOL (Obviously) Lucky Luciano Dec 2021 #60
I'm going to take a wild stab... jmowreader Dec 2021 #61
He was just as much of a fuckhead. North Shore Chicago Dec 2021 #73
The correct term for this is "fullashitness." dchill Dec 2021 #62
Maybe she just doesn't want to be an "earthen vessel". sinkingfeeling Dec 2021 #63
Madison wanted Nestor to move in and his new wife said, DIVORCE. sarcasmo Dec 2021 #64
I can't relish in his personal misery because I don't believe he is capable of such emotions. blogslug Dec 2021 #66
21.8 Scaramuccis LetMyPeopleVote Dec 2021 #67
The gays ruined his marriage IronLionZion Dec 2021 #68
So she wised up? MustLoveBeagles Dec 2021 #69
Maybe the wife wanted to bring a Christmas tree into their house? He has serious tree issues! Ziggysmom Dec 2021 #70
Congratulations! In It to Win It Dec 2021 #71
Come on everybody! North Shore Chicago Dec 2021 #74
I blame the gays kwolf68 Dec 2021 #75
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