This just occurred to me:

[stopdiggin]

5. hear what you're saying - and while I AM sympathetic

(I always am toward those with some disadvantages) - but have to say that (along with the excuses and rationale here) there is also an element of negligence. The fact that you just 'didn't get around' to something while the world was raging through a 2 year pandemic ... That smacks of a lack of consideration, effort and priorities. And, in a word - an indifference to realities. This young person may not be anti-vax - but she is - in this instance, negligent. I hope this woman and her child remain okay ...