NY Times: As Gen X and Boomers age they confront living alone (no paywall)

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4. I'm 76. The year hubby died, Hurricane Irma took

our small trailer and my car. We didn’t own the property so I took a hard financial hit. My kids advised me not to look for anything permanent since it was too soon and I was a bit in shock, so I ended up spending four months with each of my kids.they all have room and I’m healthy and self sufficient and still work. I pay for groceries, utilities, fun stuff… bought them golf cart, bought another small boat, another a new bed and mattress, etc.
it’s actually working out great. I cook for one daughter and husband since she has a very busy job. I house sit for another for two months when they go on yearly holiday.
So I’m really fortunate. Even though I miss having my own home, we have made it work.