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(114,904 posts)"Men's Rights" Groups Have Become Frighteningly Effective
Theyre changing custody rights and domestic violence laws.
Posted: Thursday, November 5, 2009 7:45am
By Kathryn Joyce
At the end of October, National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, members of the mens movement group RADAR (Respecting Accuracy in Domestic Abuse Reporting) gathered on the steps of Congress to lobby against what they say are the suppressed truths about domestic violence: that false allegations are rampant, that a feminist-run court system fraudulently separates innocent fathers from children, that battered womens shelters are running a racket that funnels federal dollars to feminists, that domestic-violence laws give cover to cagey mail-order brides seeking Green Cards, and finally, that men are victims of an unrecognized epidemic of violence at the hands of abusive wives.
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One of the respectable new faces of the movement is Glenn Sacks, a fathers' rights columnist and radio host with 50,000 e-mail followers, and a pragmatist in a world of angry dreamers. Sacks is a former feminist and abortion-clinic defender who disavows what he calls the not-insubstantial lunatic fringe of the fathers rights movement. He recently merged his successful media group with the shared-parenting organization Fathers and Families in a bid to build a mainstream fathers' rights organ on par with the National Organization for Women. Many of Sacks argumentsfor a court assumption of shared parenting in the case of divorce, or against child-support rigidity in the midst of recessioncan sound reasonable.
But do any of their arguments hold up? Many of the men for whom Sacks advocates are involved in extreme cases, says Joanie Dawson, a writer and domestic-violence advocate who has covered the fathers rights movement. The great majority of custody cases, in which shared parenting is a legitimate option, are settled or resolved privately. But of the 15 percent that go to family courtthe cases that fathers rights groups targetat least half include alleged domestic abuse.
http://www.doublex.com/section/news-politics/mens-rights-groups-have-become-frighteningly-effective?page=0,0
http://www.xyonline.net/content/responding-mens-rights-groups
http://www.hugoschwyzer.net/2004/09/29/masculinity-and-the-failure-of-the-mens-rights-movement-updated/
Excellent articles at the links.