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LisaL

(44,962 posts)
75. Well we don't know what the situation is.
Thu May 25, 2023, 07:37 PM
May 2023

Is the brother living with the father? In which case they could have shared assets and so on.

It is not a small thing. I feel for you. Take care of yourself. Walleye May 2023 #1
I'm so sorry. phylny May 2023 #2
You are doing a good job from far away. Irish_Dem May 2023 #3
You seem like a strong and practical person canetoad May 2023 #4
Wishing you love and strength through this hard, frightening loss. ancianita May 2023 #5
You've done an incredible job from that distance and served your father well Docreed2003 May 2023 #6
That is a very hard decision to make. brer cat May 2023 #7
That truly is tough. hamsterjill May 2023 #8
sincerest sympathy DonCoquixote May 2023 #9
So sorry to hear. I know what you're goin through... been there with my momz. InAbLuEsTaTe May 2023 #10
My condolences Ohio Joe May 2023 #11
So sorry for all you've been through, loss of your mother..now this heart wrenching decision RestoreAmerica2020 May 2023 #12
I am so sorry for you. Such a sad decision to have to make. May your father rest in peace. LoisB May 2023 #13
Oh, dear Layzeebeaver, how heartbreaking for you. thatcrowwoman May 2023 #14
I'm very sorry for your loss dlk May 2023 #15
I am so sorry that you are going through this and so far away.... samnsara May 2023 #16
Prayers for your dad. God bless. Joinfortmill May 2023 #17
I'm sorry. madaboutharry May 2023 #18
I am so sorry mgardener May 2023 #19
Wishing you comfort True Blue American May 2023 #20
Hug for you. tavernier May 2023 #21
Hugggggs, holding you and your father in light and love in this very difficult niyad May 2023 #22
Losing a parent is so hard. AmBlue May 2023 #23
Sending love to you. Hope22 May 2023 #24
Sending you all of my love... Goddessartist May 2023 #25
It is no small thing, and I send my condolences. flor-de-jasmim May 2023 #26
Yes, this is very important. lark May 2023 #32
Making the decision to "pull the plug" is such an excruciating one. lark May 2023 #27
I am sorry for your loss. Grumpy Old Guy May 2023 #28
Being so remote must make it difficult RainCaster May 2023 #29
My condoleneces Chautauquas May 2023 #30
((Layz)) blm May 2023 #31
I am sending hugs. May you soon find comfort in remembering the good times with your dad MLAA May 2023 #33
So sorry, for your loss..Trying to do it remotely is hard HipChick May 2023 #34
So difficult cate94 May 2023 #35
I am so sorry, Layzeebeaver. peacebuzzard May 2023 #36
What a difficult time. Strength to you. Gentler passing for him. electric_blue68 May 2023 #37
I am so sorry. WinstonSmith4740 May 2023 #38
I'm so sorry Danmel May 2023 #39
You, your father, and brother are in my prayers, Layzeebeaver! pazzyanne May 2023 #40
Peace and strength to you. It must be especially hard to be so far away Tanuki May 2023 #41
Your brother is not responsible for your Dad's hospital bills Farmer-Rick May 2023 #42
Maybe the father doesn't have health insurance? LisaL May 2023 #61
Right, then the estate is charged Farmer-Rick May 2023 #73
Well we don't know what the situation is. LisaL May 2023 #75
So sorry DownriverDem May 2023 #43
You are not alone with this. I, and many here at DU, are holding you in love and sorrow. n/t TygrBright May 2023 #44
Been almost there, done almost that DFW May 2023 #45
I am so sorry. Wishing you peace. onecaliberal May 2023 #46
Hang in there plcdude May 2023 #47
Certainly not a small thing for you. vlyons May 2023 #48
I'm so sorry to hear about this tragic situation. You're doing what's best, highplainsdem May 2023 #49
I will be thinking of you today, but this is not a small nor an easy thing to have to decide. Backseat Driver May 2023 #50
Sorry IbogaProject May 2023 #51
Condolences Jean Genie May 2023 #52
I'm so sorry. area51 May 2023 #53
I hate to think what I would do to my brother.. Permanut May 2023 #54
Allow for the possibility that your brother simply couldn't cope with watching Maru Kitteh May 2023 #55
I am so sorry. pandr32 May 2023 #56
So sorry to hear this sad news. Swede May 2023 #57
I Faux pas May 2023 #58
I'm so sorry for your loss and your acutely stressful situation. yardwork May 2023 #59
i am so sorry for the loss of your father...rest in peace to your dad...and i am sorry dawn5651 May 2023 #60
Holding you in light and comfort Wild blueberry May 2023 #62
That has to be one's toughest 3auld6phart May 2023 #63
I'm so sorry. geardaddy May 2023 #64
Sorry For Your Loss NowISeetheLight May 2023 #65
I am so sorry for your loss LetMyPeopleVote May 2023 #66
... Nevilledog May 2023 #67
What a mess. May your Dad cross gently. May you be gentle with yourself. May your brother calm down. Hekate May 2023 #68
So sorry Wicked Blue May 2023 #69
Peace in however you can find it world wide wally May 2023 #70
it IS a frighteningly big thing. And it is awful no matter the process. Hamlette May 2023 #71
So sorry.... spanone May 2023 #72
So very very sorry diva77 May 2023 #74
Peace to you and yours. sheshe2 May 2023 #76
OMG I'm so sorry FirstLight May 2023 #77
This is not a small thing. I am so sorry for your Dad and for you. Stinky The Clown May 2023 #78
Only time heals the heart OhNo-Really May 2023 #79
My mom passed in circumstances DonCoquixote May 2023 #80
I'm so sorry for your ordeal. Try not to blame your brother and become bitter. Liberty Belle May 2023 #81
How heartbreaking for you! summer_in_TX May 2023 #82
Know it's hard, horrible. You've got to trust Laura PourMeADrink May 2023 #83
Thank you so much for letting us in to share your journey, Layzeebeaver. calimary May 2023 #84
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