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In reply to the discussion: Do you give to panhandlers? [View all]Midnight Writer
(23,748 posts)55. Yes, unless they are threatening.
I once was homeless and yes, I panhandled. It was humiliating.
I was in a group of people last week in the yard of a home when a young lady carrying a backpack approached and asked for help. These people, who are quite prosperous, politely told her to leave us alone.
To my shame, I was silent and "went along with the group". I have been thinking every day since then about this poor woman and what her situation may be.
It strikes me that if a stray kitten or puppy had wandered up to us, every one in this group would have wanted to help the poor creature.
But a stray person...?
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I do on occasion. It is becoming increasingly harder for people to survive out there.
CentralMass
Aug 2023
#2
In Australia, two American guys had a sign saying they spent all their money
jimfields33
Aug 2023
#25
Here in Stockholm, almost all panhandlers we encounter are part of criminal Roma gangs.
Celerity
Aug 2023
#70
The Romanian (and Bulgarian, etc etc) government and society treats the Roma like shite, thus many
Celerity
Aug 2023
#76
Sometimes. But I am very wary--especially if they approach me. Women with kids I will give to...
hlthe2b
Aug 2023
#5
Most of them I see in my area are standing at the exit from a freeway to a major city street
MichMan
Aug 2023
#6
Addiction and mental issues probably keep them from being responsible workers.
Oopsie Daisy
Aug 2023
#11
I was at Salvation Army one time, in line waiting to get a tax receipt for donations.
LuckyCharms
Aug 2023
#21
I keep a baggie with loose one dollar bills in my car console, so they're easy to access. And yes,
chia
Aug 2023
#29
Ram Das wrote of his cultural-karmic shock of panhandlers/ beggers in India ...
sanatanadharma
Aug 2023
#36
One winter season there were an assortment of families who hung out outside Trader Joe's ...
Hekate
Aug 2023
#37
I don't give them money but like you, I have gotten food at a fast food place and given them that.
appleannie1
Aug 2023
#41
That is heartbreaking. Perhaps you will see her (them) again. So common today. We are not addressing
Evolve Dammit
Aug 2023
#48
I do. I've also brought one guy into a mini market and bought him what he wanted to eat.
C Moon
Aug 2023
#54
When I meet someone begging for money, I alway think, I do not want my money going for alcohol
spike jones
Aug 2023
#57