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ShazzieB

(20,251 posts)
16. Oh, boy, does this ever hit home!
Thu Nov 2, 2023, 09:55 PM
Nov 2023

I was laid off from a long term job at the age of 58, in the middle of the 2007-2009 recession. In case anyone doesn't remember what that that time was like, unemployment was soaring. With so many people out of work, the competition for the few existing jobs was fierce. To cite just one example, I attended a nonprofit job fair in Chicago, and it was so crowded that you could literally barely move.

I tried like crazy, but I couldn't find anything except temp jobs that had NO benefits, paid much less than what I had been making (which wasn't a lot to begin with, lasted for greatly varying periods of time, and could and did end at a moment's notice. These gigs were interspersed with dry spells that went on for months at a time. It sucked. Every time one of those gigs came to an end, I felt like a wadded up piece of used Kleenex being tossed out. Did I mention that it sucked?

When my 62nd birthday rolled around after several years of this, I found myself unable to resist the siren call of social security. The idea of money, even a small amount, coming in on a regular basis without my having to jump through any hoops looked like the promised land at that point. I continued to half-heartedly look for work for a while after that but I couldn't even land a minimum wage retail job, and my confidence was so shot to hell that I had to give up.

My social security check isn't very big, but it comes in every month like clockwork, and I don't have to get down on my knees and and beg anyone for anything. Retiring that early was definitely not my first choice, but it beats hell out of what I was dealing with before I decided to throw in the towel. The years between late 2008 and early 2012 (when I turned 62) were some of the worst years of my life, and I am still salty about it.

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Everything you said! sheshe2 Nov 2023 #1
I've heard this story SO many times...and may be joining that club myself! CousinIT Nov 2023 #5
Don't know what you do dflprincess Nov 2023 #6
ACA has made this much less of a problem. We early retired (spouse) and semi retired (me) kelly1mm Nov 2023 #11
❤️ littlemissmartypants Nov 2023 #17
There are certain standard values that seem bedrock to me yardwork Nov 2023 #2
Answer: $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ BigmanPigman Nov 2023 #3
Life's cycle. sheshe2 Nov 2023 #9
If they're willing... CousinIT Nov 2023 #13
True. sheshe2 Nov 2023 #14
And if they have the resources. thucythucy Nov 2023 #15
I've seen that predicament in my own family. The one 'work at home/domestic' person.. CousinIT Nov 2023 #18
Exactly we moved when I was 61 Tree Lady Nov 2023 #4
Im the opposite. I thought I was going to retire early but things changed and Im still working at 68. honest.abe Nov 2023 #7
So true. PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2023 #8
Yea have been in my field since the 1980s! CousinIT Nov 2023 #12
I retired a couple years ago when I hit 63 and a few months MichMan Nov 2023 #10
Oh, boy, does this ever hit home! ShazzieB Nov 2023 #16
NOBODY should have to go through this shit. It's why I say the retirement age should be LOWERED CousinIT Nov 2023 #20
""But they probably won't make it to 70," he added." OldBaldy1701E Nov 2023 #19
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