In the discussion thread: Stop Telling Women How to Not Get Raped [View all]
Response to redqueen (Original post)
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 04:57 PM
Sarah Ibarruri (21,043 posts)
17. My sister has 4 daughters - all of them small in stature
She already raised 2 sons, and is raising 2 more. Lots of kids.
Anyway, because my sister is aware that there's no way to control perverts and sickos, she now has them in karate classes. That's no guarantee that sickos and perverts will not endanger them, but there are no 100% guarantees of anything in life. She also tells them not to call too much attention to themselves, and dress appropriately, as if not seeking attention. I am also reminded of a class we had at a workplace at which there had been an attack in the parking lot. Among the suggestions: Do not leave the workplace alone, try not to leave too late, carry the keys in your hand (as a weapon and to have it ready when you arrive at the car), always be aware of your surroundings, make sure to check the back seats of the car upon entering it, do not respond to requests for help from someone in the parking lot (run back to the building and seek help), and more. I do agree there's a desperate need to teach boys from early on that women should be respected. Of course, it's a losing battle every day with the lack of respect shown on videos, videogames, movies, songs, etc. |
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