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4. What anxious parents of neurodivergent children can learn from Tim and Gwen Walz
Thu Aug 22, 2024, 12:46 PM
Aug 2024

Gus is neurodivergent and the Walz family is doing an amazing job of raising Gus



https://www.msnbc.com/opinion/msnbc-opinion/tim-walz-children-gus-neurodivergent-rcna166748

Minnesota Gov. Tim Walz’s open acknowledgement that he and his wife used fertility treatments to conceive their two children and his candid discussions about that generated one of the most moving moments during a rally in Glendale, Arizona, when people chanted the name of his firstborn daughter, Hope. The positive reaction to the candidate’s discussion of the topic confirms the thumbs-up that Vice President Kamala Harris got for choosing her running mate from every faction of the Democratic Party — from moderates such as Rep. Abigail Spanberger, D-Va.; progressives such as Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, D-N.Y.; and even erstwhile conservative Democrat Sen. Joe Manchin, I-W.Va., who left the party this year.

But Tim and Gwen Walz also deserve positive attention for the way they’ve discussed their son, Gus, who came into the national spotlight thanks to a piece in People magazine, about his nonverbal learning disorder and attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder. That makes him double-neurodiverse.

Simply having a neurodivergent son is not enough reason for him to be praised; indeed, many parents of neurodivergent children have been harmful to their children and peddled harmful ideas, including the idea that vaccines cause autism. Rather, what makes the Walz family’s story so reassuring is that they seem to want to help Gus live a good life rather than change who he is.

According to the Child Mind Institute, nonverbal learning disorder, or NVLD, affects nonverbal forms of learning like the ability to notice patterns or learn concepts, including visual and social patterns as well as concepts in language and math. Because of the similar traits, people with NVLD are often confused as being on the autism spectrum and vice versa. Most recently, comedian Chris Rock disclosed that he received a diagnosis after a friend initially thought he might be somewhere on the autism spectrum.....

The Walzes’ words and their embrace of their son may seem utterly unremarkable. But that’s the point. Loving your children, celebrating their gifts and embracing them fully ought to be unremarkable whether they’re neurodivergent or neurotypical. Neurodivergent people deserve parents who are dedicated to helping them thrive. They deserve family members who know that the way they love, interact and see the world, while different from their neurotypical counterparts, deserves the same respect. ......

At the same time, it is still a step forward that the Walz family doesn’t see Gus as deficient and has instead focused on what is possible for him, such as obtaining his driver’s license. Importantly, with the national profile they now have, the Walz family can serve as a model to show parents of children with developmental disabilities the joys that come with embracing, and not mending, their children

These are the same people who cheered their hero when he spooky3 Aug 2024 #1
Well liberalgunwilltravel Aug 2024 #14
and they cheered when the republicon mob beat and maimed police BoRaGard Aug 2024 #16
This! SheltieLover Aug 2024 #25
That should ended trump once and for all Tribetime Aug 2024 #31
Unintended consequences BattleRow Aug 2024 #36
This ticket is so clean and such s breath of fresh air calguy Aug 2024 #2
Yeah, I'm with you on this one. People are getting TIRED of this cruelty, bullying, mocking. PatrickforB Aug 2024 #27
Yes, and start by cutting off the head of the snake. Walleye Aug 2024 #29
I have multiple disabilities ArkansasDemocrat1 Aug 2024 #44
This Is Why I Had Trepidation... ProfessorGAC Aug 2024 #3
He's fair game now! SheltieLover Aug 2024 #26
Hes just as bad as the rest of them Squidly Aug 2024 #43
What anxious parents of neurodivergent children can learn from Tim and Gwen Walz LetMyPeopleVote Aug 2024 #4
👀 underpants Aug 2024 #10
As we can tell from the nice write-up you provided here, on how to diagnose this and other similar learning SWBTATTReg Aug 2024 #18
All they've got is bullying. eShirl Aug 2024 #5
you do understand bullies don't you???? They are basically cowards shivering in their pants. They bully to cover that up demigoddess Aug 2024 #17
I think you are right. The fever is breaking in some Maga members. Bozvotros Aug 2024 #6
Magatonians are incapable of compassion Flatrat Aug 2024 #7
aka MAGAts oswaldactedalone Aug 2024 #9
Y'allQuieda nt ArkansasDemocrat1 Aug 2024 #45
Before Trump... appmanga Aug 2024 #8
This started long before the King of the Cellar Dwellers... Wuddles440 Aug 2024 #23
Amy Carter was mocked by the Rethuglicuns ArkansasDemocrat1 Aug 2024 #46
Oops! Wuddles440 Aug 2024 #55
They are massive hypocrites EnergizedLib Aug 2024 #11
They don't care liberalgunwilltravel Aug 2024 #12
They're emulating Trump. He led the way. surfered Aug 2024 #13
There are many Republicans rejecting Trump and his cult. There will be some who retain enough decency to see... NNadir Aug 2024 #15
It's bewildering. And painful. madamesilverspurs Aug 2024 #19
Then that's how he sees his son ArkansasDemocrat1 Aug 2024 #47
I don't think that's quite right. harumph Aug 2024 #53
little people with little minds et tu Aug 2024 #20
We should expect this Norbert Aug 2024 #21
I mock Eric all the time not a texan Aug 2024 #22
This is why I will never give them grace or understanding. They are vile, soulless, garbage people. onecaliberal Aug 2024 #24
Masking has significant physical and mental health impacts on neurodivergent people. meadowlander Aug 2024 #28
I am so damn proud of my daughter lapfog_1 Aug 2024 #30
After ignoring trump in 2016 when he mocked a disabled reporter liberal N proud Aug 2024 #32
Let's keep offending them ..nt ArkansasDemocrat1 Aug 2024 #48
They have neurodivergent children. Demobrat Aug 2024 #33
You'd think I'd never be surprised at the other side any more, LAS14 Aug 2024 #34
Ann Coulter (apparently now deleted) posted on X "Talk about weird." madaboutharry Aug 2024 #35
Which Surprised Me ProfessorGAC Aug 2024 #39
tRump will do his imitation during a 90 minute whine fest somewhere, count on it. BamaRefugee Aug 2024 #37
Let's just say it was hands off Barron Trump Klarkashton Aug 2024 #38
Open season on the Barron now ArkansasDemocrat1 Aug 2024 #49
Along those lines it's already orientation and so on Klarkashton Aug 2024 #54
Who are these people mocking Gus. Are they from Fox? or magats? debm55 Aug 2024 #40
Evangelists ..nt ArkansasDemocrat1 Aug 2024 #50
They won't care. mindfulNJ Aug 2024 #41
Never ends! Jean Genie Aug 2024 #42
they will say " its just a joke". taint funny mcgeee. AllaN01Bear Aug 2024 #51
Gus is absolutely adorable 🥰 Funtatlaguy Aug 2024 #52
I think openly showing emotion is a quality everyone should have. Emile Aug 2024 #56
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