Not true. This term has appeared in popular culture because it has actual truth to it. Women don't want to "risk" friendships by turning them into relationships and who do they make friends with: reliable trustworthy guys. Who do they date: exciting dangerous guys.



That is ego-serving nonsense.


NO really it is not. You are just an absolutist who doesn't live in the real world and doesn't know the first thing about what she is talking about. Give up already - you know better.

I don't know what you are talking about. I have observed this behavior FIRSTHAND AND YES actually I have had this conversation and that is exactly what I meant. Sorry if you don't want to believe it.



It's scary to think a woman actually told you that she got drunk to "give herself permission" to have sex with someone. Sickening and scary.

Sorry if you can't face reality. It's not me who does the drinking. I don't really like drinking that much and only do it to look like an adult in adult social situations.

Regardless... please don't project someone's serious issues onto an entire sex. Thanks.


Not imaginary at all.. real life women I've known personally.


You claim to have absolute knowledge of what all women think which is just delusional absolutist nonsense.


Real life women you've known personally what? They told you that all women play game cause it's in our nature? Told you that men don't? WTF?

Whichever, it's a bunch of bullshit.

AGAIN YOU CANNOT CLAIM TO KNOW WHAT EVERY WOMAN IN THE WORLD THINKS. Very few women in my experience have NOT been game players and the ones that are NOT game players are actually the ones I am the most interested in because they are the easiest to communicate with.


I want more than just "sex" from a woman - I want a full relationship. These bad boys just want sex. Again you are conflating all men together. When women reward bad boy behavior, they should expect it to be reinforced in men who see that it works and that being "a good boy" doesn't.



This is simply ****** up.

NO IT ISN'T. YOU WANTING TO TAKE NO RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR OWN CHOICES AND BLAME MEN FOR THE OUTCOME OF YOUR BAD DECISIONS IS ***** UP.

So tell me... in your reality... if a woman doesn't want a relationship and just wants sex, she's 'rewarding bad behavior'? Or is she a 'bad girl'? How exactly do the women's wishes fit into this nonsense? And how does it at ALL mean that ANY rape is a woman's fault?

I really am OK if a woman just wants sex I don't judge - I don't get into "good girl" "bad girl" nonsense - most men don't - that's just something in my experience that women use against other women - but if she does just want sex then 1) how is that rape? 2) what does it have to do with this conversation which is about women being date raped which is clearly about women NOT wanting to have sex? and 3) She should expect to live with the consequences of her decision to do so if it turns out that the guy she wanted to have sex with turns out to be a stalker, abuser, drug addict, or whatever.