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Gregorian

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22. Thank you all for keeping this discussion alive. Let's solve the root problems, not the symptoms.
Sun Dec 23, 2012, 01:30 PM
Dec 2012

It's so odd that the things Jesus said were too simple for people to believe. And the forces opposing them too tempting to resist.

But the bottom line really is "love". It's terribly uncomfortable. Hate serves the ego, and it feels good. But it doesn't last, and it doesn't work. I know I'm simplifying things. Two people have a child they never intended to have, and that's where some of this comes from. How does one cherish that which they never intended to have? And then it snowballs from generation to generation. Not to mention fetal alcohol syndrome, among other things.

But the majority of the problems we experience today come from bad parenting. Bad parenting comes from a number of things which all stem from bad parenting. Screaming commercials, bad politics, greed, rage, fear.

Germany outlawed corporal punishment of children. It's a start. And it's a fact that abuse during the first years of childhood causes changes in brain physiology.

http://nospank.net/deut.htm

I dream of a society where people are healthy, and work together.

scapegoat [View all] H2O Man Dec 2012 OP
Compassion, understanding, and education instead of fear, finger-pointing, and exclusion. Fire Walk With Me Dec 2012 #1
Thank you. And it applies to so much more than just the mentally ill. woo me with science Dec 2012 #2
Now they have arrested Santa: AnotherDreamWeaver Dec 2012 #3
Good god. woo me with science Dec 2012 #4
Extremely important point. H2O Man Dec 2012 #11
Yes! The NRA are a powerful political and social lobby for weapons manufacturers and salesmen! n/t Fire Walk With Me Dec 2012 #18
Thank you all for keeping this discussion alive. Let's solve the root problems, not the symptoms. Gregorian Dec 2012 #22
Very good! H2O Man Dec 2012 #31
I'm most grateful, and enriched, from hearing your experiences. Gregorian Dec 2012 #32
He was friends H2O Man Dec 2012 #33
You'll have a hard time convincing me ... GeorgeGist Dec 2012 #5
Not all mental illness is an imprimatur of being a danger to ones' self or others. Fire Walk With Me Dec 2012 #8
Although it's not H2O Man Dec 2012 #12
Gotcha, and Thank You. Fire Walk With Me Dec 2012 #13
Absolutely! H2O Man Dec 2012 #14
I'm not a danger to anyone. It's kind of degrading to have to say it, or even be asked. Denninmi Dec 2012 #27
Too bad his mother didn't deal with that. savannah43 Dec 2012 #9
It's easy: H2O Man Dec 2012 #10
Recommended me b zola Dec 2012 #6
Thanks! H2O Man Dec 2012 #16
K&R. Well said. Overseas Dec 2012 #7
Thank you. H2O Man Dec 2012 #17
Highly recommended CrazyOrangeCat Dec 2012 #15
Thanks. H2O Man Dec 2012 #19
Recommended. mmonk Dec 2012 #20
Thanks! H2O Man Dec 2012 #23
Thanks so much. mmonk Dec 2012 #25
kickrec Eric the Reddish Dec 2012 #21
Thank you H2O Man Dec 2012 #24
Chief Waterman told him that this was not his true identity... Octafish Dec 2012 #26
A different reality ...... H2O Man Dec 2012 #28
What Happened To The Young Man? Me. Dec 2012 #29
He still H2O Man Dec 2012 #30
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