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etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
9. Five, that I can quickly think of
Sun Dec 23, 2012, 01:56 PM
Dec 2012

The first was when I was a young child, a neighbor committed suicide

The second: a neighbor was "accidentally shot while cleaning his gun" ...? (again as a child)

The third, a teenager in the neighborhood was killed while in a sketchy part of the city (reportedly drug related), again I was a child

Four: My cousin's husband was killed during an armed robbery at the auto parts store he managed.

Five: A nurse I worked with was shot by a deranged healthcare administrator (after she left the hospital I was working at).

On edit: Upon reflection I honestly did not know (consciously) that gun violence had played this prominent of a role in my life until I started writing.

I need to add that I have always lived in "typical" middle class to UMC suburban areas (as opposed to rural "hunting" areas or crime ravaged inner city areas).

I also need to add that a cousin of sorts (my uncles foster child he was a teenager when he came to live with my uncle) shot and killed a repo guy while he was repo'ing his car. When this occurred the guy was in his late 40s and had never shown symptoms of great violence ... yet, he had a gun and killed another human being.

My friend who served in Desert Storm and was assigned to bury bodies with a bulldozer blade was shot NYC_SKP Dec 2012 #1
Years ago my next door neighbor shot his penis off. broiles Dec 2012 #2
Maybe it did! Walk away Dec 2012 #8
None. But then, at 70, I've lived marybourg Dec 2012 #3
A good friend of mine Mojorabbit Dec 2012 #4
Quite a few in the first part of my life. yellerpup Dec 2012 #5
Ray, the brother of my sister's husband. RebelOne Dec 2012 #6
My best friends son was given a gun for Christmas... Walk away Dec 2012 #7
Five, that I can quickly think of etherealtruth Dec 2012 #9
Very few. Alcohol is the killer in my life story. nt hack89 Dec 2012 #10
A man I knew was carrying a small handgun in his pants pocket. Arkansas Granny Dec 2012 #11
zero. none. n/t SWTORFanatic Dec 2012 #12
Too many to count. proud2BlibKansan Dec 2012 #13
same here... (posted far below.) salin Dec 2012 #60
I'll bet you catch yourself waiting to hear the name of the perp or the victim when there's a murder proud2BlibKansan Dec 2012 #61
Sadly, yes. I have only been in my current city for the past decade salin Dec 2012 #64
When I was a kid I remember a 15 year old shooting himself in the head milestogo Dec 2012 #14
Two suicides by gun Tsiyu Dec 2012 #15
I basically stopped counting in 1968 after my former high school classmate was killed in Vietnam... OldDem2012 Dec 2012 #16
same thread here: shanti Dec 2012 #17
Lukily not too many. werknotgoin2takeit Dec 2012 #18
I am so sorry etherealtruth Dec 2012 #20
Thank You werknotgoin2takeit Dec 2012 #31
To tell the truth, the one death that affected me most Warpy Dec 2012 #19
The housemate of a friend shot him in the leg near groin, Flabbergasted Dec 2012 #21
Too many to count... 2naSalit Dec 2012 #22
I am so sorry that you have gone through this etherealtruth Dec 2012 #23
Thank you.. 2naSalit Dec 2012 #27
Two. Nay Dec 2012 #24
Let me think Sherman A1 Dec 2012 #25
I am Social Security age, and can honestly say no one I have known. or someone I knew libdem4life Dec 2012 #26
The sister of a friend who was murdered by a witness called to make a deposition. yardwork Dec 2012 #28
Mr. Frazier, Mr. Hood, Mr. Wieder, Ms. Allen Deep13 Dec 2012 #29
Thanks for this jberryhill, very poignant example of how we all know guns too well SirRevolutionary Dec 2012 #30
1 brother, 0 bad guys. nt LWolf Dec 2012 #32
1 dead, 1 wounded Adsos Letter Dec 2012 #33
Mike Donnelly... 99Forever Dec 2012 #34
The husband of a former teaching colleague was one of several physics professors Lydia Leftcoast Dec 2012 #35
My father, one guy I knew in the Marines, several postal workers who shot themselves. Tierra_y_Libertad Dec 2012 #36
My best friend shot and killed himself. Dustlawyer Dec 2012 #37
The exact reason why I don't keep my late father's guns in my home. GreenPartyVoter Dec 2012 #50
sad heaven05 Dec 2012 #38
My cousin's son, David, was murdered Jack Rabbit Dec 2012 #39
2 with depression, one while I was sleeping, 1 was my sister-in-law's 18-yr old nephew. Then 2 my judesedit Dec 2012 #40
One time I was driving down the road broad daylight when a carful of young guys pulled up. One had judesedit Dec 2012 #41
My sister-in-law was murdered in Miami in 1996. kcass1954 Dec 2012 #42
Several Irishonly Dec 2012 #43
Too many, too close. hunter Dec 2012 #44
A bunch graywarrior Dec 2012 #45
I figure about 15 friends have died by the gun. alfredo Dec 2012 #46
My brother's best friend accidentally shot and killed himself cpwm17 Dec 2012 #47
A woman I worked with, nicest girl; husband angry drunk; shot her. Fla Dem Dec 2012 #48
One, my uncle. May there never be another gun death in my life or my family. GreenPartyVoter Dec 2012 #49
At least 6 people have died from gunshots that I knew beveeheart Dec 2012 #51
One murder/suicide of school chum in 1970.. louis-t Dec 2012 #52
three booley Dec 2012 #53
One, my brother dooner Dec 2012 #54
My community still grieves for Brian Mahon kag Dec 2012 #55
My uncle was shot to death in a bar. movingviolation Dec 2012 #56
Several, but I especially remember tavernier Dec 2012 #57
I've answered this question before. Blue_In_AK Dec 2012 #58
When I worked with urban youth in Detroit in the 90s... salin Dec 2012 #59
Murder is such an everyday thing for urban kids. proud2BlibKansan Dec 2012 #62
earth-shatteringly, so. salin Dec 2012 #63
Probably around 100. easttexaslefty Dec 2012 #65
3 dead (suicide), 2 wounded (attack/failed suicide attempt), 0 bad guys Tom Ripley Dec 2012 #66
Grandfather to suicide (shotgun), friend to suicide (handgun), friend murdered (shotgun) neverforget Dec 2012 #67
Growing up, I was told that my grandfather's brother died of cancer Nikia Dec 2012 #68
A friend of mine shot himself while playing Russian roulette. UnrepentantLiberal Dec 2012 #69
My best friend at 15 was shot in the head by her boyfriend. Took her 3 days to die. Care Acutely Dec 2012 #70
Off the top of my head... PeaceNikki Dec 2012 #71
I've lost two people in my life to gun violence OmahaBlueDog Dec 2012 #72
I posted this thread back in July about my great uncle and his family.... Ikonoklast Dec 2012 #73
I've been shot at and nearly pistol whipped. joshcryer Dec 2012 #74
Philip Young, a friend shot himself in the belly with a .22 rifle while "cleaning" it, he survived Fumesucker Dec 2012 #75
About age 12, a young man, about 14, killed himself with a gun fadedrose Dec 2012 #76
A childhood friend of mine's father committed suicide with a shotgun. geckosfeet Dec 2012 #77
Similar. baldguy Dec 2012 #78
My partner's grandfather thucythucy Dec 2012 #79
I know about 11 people who have shot... SummerSnow Dec 2012 #80
Only suicides for me cthulu2016 Dec 2012 #81
two riverbendviewgal Dec 2012 #82
Several Hassin Bin Sober Dec 2012 #83
My old next door neighbor Generic Brad Dec 2012 #84
None, unless you count the BIL of my GreatGrandfather via his first wife. Thor_MN Dec 2012 #85
I might have the only kinda-funny story to add to this thread Dems to Win Dec 2012 #86
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