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In reply to the discussion: Eve Ensler on the passivity of men [View all]Agschmid
(28,749 posts)At Tue Feb 12, 2013, 06:27 PM an alert was sent on the following post:
i have 50 shades of questions,
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2360195
REASON FOR ALERT:
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ALERTER'S COMMENTS:
This poster is saying because of a book or fantasy that some women secretly want to be raped. Even in fantasy, it would never be rape. This is misogynist and destructive and offensive to every rape victim.
You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Tue Feb 12, 2013, 06:36 PM, and the Jury voted 2-4 to LEAVE IT.
Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: Why not respond to question and if you find the post offensive, tell it directly to the poster?
Juror #2 voted to HIDE IT and said: IMO the passive-agresessive disingenousness of this post is extremely offensive. I doubt any amount of schooling by other posters would have any effect, so the best solution is to shitcan it.
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: No explanation given
Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT and said: Agree with the alerter. It's a BOOK, Chairman Agnostic.
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: Ugh... I am voting although somewhat against my better judgement to leave this post. That being said one great way to ask someone if they'd like to be your sex partner is ASK... there are really no shades of gray around a YES or NO answer... duh.
Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: No explanation given
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Maybe rethink your wording a bit... and just ask your partner what they want.