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In reply to the discussion: Eve Ensler on the passivity of men [View all]BainsBane
(53,031 posts)and your hatred of women is evident whenever you post. It's sad really. It's like working class whites blaming unions for their poverty. It's completely nonsensical.
Look at rape stats. 99% of perpetrators are male, and 91% of victims are female. You would blame women for those 9% of rapes committed against men. Blaming women for crimes clearly perpetrated by men makes no sense.
Why must you think of yourself as victim? If you developed a more positive outlook, you would do a lot better. Going around blaming women for your problems in life is absurd. So a woman dumped you. That doesn't make women responsible for all the evil on earth. We all get dumped. That's part of life. I was married to a physically abusive husband. If I nursed the amount of hostility toward men that you do toward women, It would only make me miserable. 25% of women in this country are raped. They eventually recover, and many go on to marry and sustain other loving relationships. The reason to let go of resentment is because you are the one who suffers most. Whatever woman wronged you doesn't feel your anger. Only you feel it. One becomes prisoner of his own resentment. It poisons life.