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In reply to the discussion: Just ripped a co-worker. Now I feel terrible. [View all]lapislzi
(5,762 posts)No two ways about that. It being the town it is, nobody is being held accountable for that side of it.
Little's been said about other girls present at the parties. 16 is a squirrely age. My daughter told her share of lies about where she was going at that age. It was a full time job on weekends to call parents, verify whereabouts, etc. If she skipped out while I was at work, it might have been hours before I could track her down. This wasn't a frequent occurrence (fortunately), and so far as I know, no rapes occurred. She got drunk and sick once, and that was the last incident.
As I had it explained to me (wish I had listened), there is no time when it's acceptable to be impaired.
That is a completely different discussion than the fact that at no time is it acceptable to perform a sex act on an unconscious or unconsenting person.