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MadHound

(34,179 posts)
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 10:50 AM Apr 2013

What I learned being a big guy, [View all]

Long ago when I was young, I learned some lessons about being a big guy. Such as having to give folks a bit more personal space so I wouldn't "loom" over them, thus making them uncomfortable, things like that.

One of the the things I learned was when to walk away from a fight. You see, being a big guy, I found that there was this certain sub group of short guys who were just hell bound on proving themselves against me in a fight. They would try and provoke me into a fight, making a big show of how macho/strong/crazy they are, when all along I knew I could wipe the floor with them, and worse yet, they knew it as well. Crazy guys. What I learned is to simply walk away from these idiots, because if you tried to intimidate them, that would just make them crazier, and if you continued to try and intimidate them, they really would do something crazy, like pulling out a knife or gun, and then the real fun would begin, and at that point it could very well end up with me being seriously injured or dead.

I think that lesson applies to what is going on between the US and N. Korea. We are the big guy in this case, and for whatever reason(or perhaps no reason at all), this small dude Kim Jong Un is hell bound on proving themselves against us. The trouble is, we haven't learned the lesson of being a big guy, to walk away, that it isn't worth it. We've sent B-2's over for the first time ever last week, and just sent over some F-22 stealth fighter jets, all in an attempt to intimidate this guy. C'mon, this is a scion of the Kim family, the dude is fucking crazy, and all we're doing is ratcheting up his, and North Korea's crazy factor exponentially.

If we continue, this won't end well for anyone. A bomb dropped, a war launched, it can get ugly, quickly. Can we kick the shit out of N. Korea, certainly, but doing so would leave a serious mark, that is unless China decides to back its traditional puppet, then we're in real trouble. So instead of pursuing this tactic of intimidation, it is time to pursue that old strategy that any big guy knows, just walk away. Ratchet down the level of discourse, pay no attention to the small crazy guy, just walk away.

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What I learned being a big guy, [View all] MadHound Apr 2013 OP
Excellent post malaise Apr 2013 #1
agreed - silence says 'try it, and find out' markiv Apr 2013 #2
I have known big guys that couldnt wipe the floor with smaller guys because of their nature. rhett o rick Apr 2013 #3
Basically it's like this little 8 second video Lex Apr 2013 #4
That's great. Hoyt Apr 2013 #7
I need to send that to SalmonChanedEvening. nt awoke_in_2003 Apr 2013 #23
A cartoon is worth 1000 words Bosonic Apr 2013 #5
+1 uponit7771 Apr 2013 #26
I Totally Relate To This ChoppinBroccoli Apr 2013 #6
As a very small person, I agree. JDPriestly Apr 2013 #16
OK, because of your handle I have always pictured you as Dana Carvey, lol n/t yodermon Apr 2013 #30
It wouldn't bother me if Obama sent Little Kim a letter saying "we surrender." Hoyt Apr 2013 #8
that would be a fantastic plot for a movie, seriously. KittyWampus Apr 2013 #17
As Obama stated yesterday... Javaman Apr 2013 #9
The situation is probably a bit more complicated than your social encounters. Matariki Apr 2013 #10
"There's really no telling what they'll do. . ." MadHound Apr 2013 #11
Not exactly. Lurker Deluxe Apr 2013 #13
That is hopefully correct, however with a change in leadership I can see the need for caution Matariki Apr 2013 #27
Here's what ya gotta worry about... lastlib Apr 2013 #20
Just a thought from another big guy Mopar151 Apr 2013 #21
There's an attitude on the Right to "teach em a lesson"... Spitfire of ATJ Apr 2013 #12
Germany was just a little guy after WWI, but it was the bully. JDPriestly Apr 2013 #14
I had similar thoughts.... socialindependocrat Apr 2013 #15
it's not only about north Korea RedstDem Apr 2013 #18
What I think might be going on: LeftInTX Apr 2013 #19
I think we're actually not trying to intimidate them caraher Apr 2013 #22
Yes, it's best to avoid escalation Martin Eden Apr 2013 #24
That's OK advice on an individual scale, up to a point. MineralMan Apr 2013 #25
Interesting post. Quantess Apr 2013 #28
I'm acquainted with a couple of ex-NFL players in my practice, PCIntern Apr 2013 #29
Little-man syndrome is a thing. dawg Apr 2013 #31
The Big Guy Code. aikoaiko Apr 2013 #32
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