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In reply to the discussion: National Tell a Girl She’s Beautiful Day is pure bullshit, and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. [View all]knightmaar
(748 posts)When your grandson grows up and presumably likes girls, you only have to teach him to respect them as human beings.
Eye contact -> Greeting -> Compliment/joke -> Cup of coffee?
It's pretty easy to tell, at any stage, whether or not you're being well received. If you aren't, move along. If you're constantly poorly received, there's an issue with your delivery. Creeping out a lot of girls is a bad sign.
It's mostly a matter of having decent manners and acting as if you'd be a clever or fun person to hang around with.
Even if he steps over the line ("Nice boobs" as opposed to "Love the shirt" , he's not actually in legal trouble. He's going to get a dirty look or a cold shoulder that tells him to stop. And, hopefully, by the time he enters the work force, he knows that "nice boobs" is over the line.