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In reply to the discussion: Stopping abortions. [View all]

LuvNewcastle

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6. It's better for the woman's health if she prevents the pregnancy
Sun Sep 15, 2013, 10:08 AM
Sep 2013

before the stage where she has to have an abortion, but I think there's a stigma about abortion that needs to be removed. Too many people, even pro-choice people, look at abortion as some sort of a taboo. That needs to end.

Most of the time these fetuses are removed at a stage when hardly anyone would call them human. One friend of mine told me that she saw the fetus that was removed when she had an abortion, and it was about the size of the last joint of her little finger. It was just a little blob, not anything near being a person. Except in cases where a fetus is removed in last several weeks of a pregnancy, it's similar to fetuses of other animals. A woman might as well be having a blood clot removed.

The guilt that some women have over getting an abortion is ridiculous, and it's totally because they've been taught by society and religion that it's immoral. Sex is bad, therefore you must take your punishment for having sex and carry that 'baby' to term. Having an abortion is like escaping God's wrath. It's breaking the rules. This is all a bunch of bullshit and it needs to end.

Friends of women who have abortions should be supportive and reassure them. Women who don't want to be pregnant shouldn't have to be, and they shouldn't feel a bit of guilt about having that fetus removed, no more than having a corn removed or anything else that can be problematic down the line. We have enough people already. In fact, we can't even take care of all the people we have. Americans need to think about their views about abortion; they need to think about why they have negative attitudes about it and where those attitudes come from. It's totally absurd.

Stopping abortions. [View all] Scuba Sep 2013 OP
Certainly, if anti-choice groups wanted to stop abortions, rather than punish women for having sex-- hlthe2b Sep 2013 #1
Ditto! FarPoint Sep 2013 #2
True. That's why I always say that anti-abortion people don't want to actually stop abortions... Triana Sep 2013 #10
Naw. we al know that birth control and accurate sex education makes people MORE CTyankee Sep 2013 #3
There you go, throwing logic into it. hobbit709 Sep 2013 #4
But... progressoid Sep 2013 #5
It's better for the woman's health if she prevents the pregnancy LuvNewcastle Sep 2013 #6
I cringe when I hear democrats say they want less abortions. boston bean Sep 2013 #8
I feel the same way. No need to perpetuate the guilt trip. LuvNewcastle Sep 2013 #9
Well, I want there to be fewer heart bypass operations also. MH1 Sep 2013 #14
People aren't passing laws trying to outlaw heart bypass operations. boston bean Sep 2013 #15
I agree, but I don't know of many Dems trying to outlaw abortion, either. MH1 Sep 2013 #18
A heart by pass operation is a good procedure boston bean Sep 2013 #19
Agreed, but if there is an action that reduces heart bypass operations by 71% MH1 Sep 2013 #24
Not by using laws and placing restrictions on people. boston bean Sep 2013 #25
True, although MH1 Sep 2013 #26
I personally prefer the argument that its the woman's body, therefore it is solely her choice. (nt) LostOne4Ever Sep 2013 #21
Here's the difficulty in wiping away the guilt LittleBlue Sep 2013 #27
But, but, but OnionPatch Sep 2013 #7
And we would be paying for their godless fornication out of our OWN POCKETS! Squinch Sep 2013 #11
Us men mostly have that right already. RC Sep 2013 #13
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PP helps with that, but I don't know that they provide it free to all comers. MH1 Sep 2013 #16
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Aw, dang, I was busy writing up a reply to "lotus flower" MH1 Sep 2013 #22
but...see there ultimate goal is stopping sex. alphafemale Sep 2013 #20
Before the 9th week kskiska Sep 2013 #23
It could but it might not jmowreader Sep 2013 #28
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