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Response to BainsBane (Reply #103)

Sat Jan 11, 2014, 04:22 AM

118. There you go again, making up attitudes and ascribing them to others--your stock in trade.

Let's take your diatribe in small bites, now, shall we?

What you object to is that I speak at all, that I have the audacity to express views not approves of by a few members of this site furious that I dare discuss issues of gender and violence against women...


No, this just is a bit fat heaping helping of NOT true. You can "speak" all you want--you're sure doing plenty of it on this thread. It's obvious no one has taken away your keyboard.

You have no evidence that I have ever claimed to speak for all women.


I notice you used the "no evidence" phrasing....do these words ring a bell with you at all?

Being opposed to sexist slurs is not treating women as "special snowflakes". That is offensive to every woman on du. Insult women with "special snowflakes" to dismiss the progressive position of being against sexist slurs.


And even if they aren't familiar to you--though I'm guessing they are, anyone reading your posts can't help but notice that your modus operandus is to tell people what women like or don't like, what they want or don't want, what's acceptable and what is not, as though you're the arbiter of these things--and you're not. Post 64 is a mirror being held up--look into it.

You are incensed I speak at all, that I question make privilege. You cry censorship while insisting I have no right to post a simple poll, while claiming I am making false allegations about Quinnox's poll.


Show me where I said I was incensed that you speak at all--you can't because I never said that. I didn't "cry censorship"--you don't, as I noted, have the ability to censor me or anyone else, though you certainly do try with your dire insinuations and word-twisting attempts-- nor did I "insist (you) have no right to post a simple poll"--another completely fabricated invention on your part. And as for "Quinnox's poll," I haven't said a single word about "Quinnox" or "his poll."

You could simply ignore the poll, but that's not sufficient. You feel entitled to tell me that I have no right to object to being called a female dog, as less that human, or be reduced to vulgar names for the female anatomy.


Yes, I could simply ignore the poll, and as I said elsewhere on this thread, I do regret joining this train wreck that you created. But I'm not going to walk away while you make stuff up about me--that's just not on. I don't "feel entitled to tell you that (you) have no right to object to being called a female dog, as less that human, or be reduced to vulgar names for the female anatomy" and I object vociferously to you trying to put that untruth you created out of whole cloth on me--that's an example, right there, of you inventing a statement and shoving it in someone else's mouth. It's deceitful, it's wrong, and you should be ashamed of yourself. Thanks for doing it, though--because by your words we shall know you, and you've really stepped over the line with this latest OTT post.

You have decided that e en asking the question is an outrage. That is entirely your problem


No, as I have said, you making shit up about people, making accusatory statements, and putting words in people's mouths is entirely YOUR problem. You're just really, really annoyed that I'm pointing it out.

Here is the bottom line. You be whatever you want be, but leave me out of it. I dont control anyones behavior but I do get to decide who I relate to. My life, my thoughts and my feelings have nothing
whatsoever to do with you and I thank all the stars above that they never will. We font know each other and never will. I could care less what you and your
buddies think about me, particularly when you reveal am astounding lack of awareness by acussing me of precisely what you have done.



Sorry--that's not "the bottom line" just because you say so. I'll "leave you out of it" when you stop misrepresenting and bullying people with false insinuations and characterizations. You sure as hell don't control anyone's behavior, but you certainly do try to goad and bait people, and you misstate their words and their intent. And if you "could care less" what I think of you, why do you continue to respond to me with more misrepresentations of what I've had to say, here? You do know that most DUers are smart people--they can READ. They can COMPREHEND a sentence. And they can see that what you are claiming I have said is NOT what I've said.


I am giving you a belated Christmas
gift. I no longer exist to you. Put me on ignore, imagine I am dead, or whatever makes you happy. As long as you never respond to me again, you can free yourself from the bane of my existence. Problem solved.


Thought you said you didn't try to control people? Here you are, demanding that I put you on ignore and imagine that you are dead. I don't do IGNORE and I'd have to regard you in a sick and visceral way to go to the weirdly fucked up place (that you had no problem creating in your own head, and describing in your post) of "imagining" you or anyone dead. That's just some messed up shit, there! This is a MESSAGE board. Why are you talking about dead people?

And you're proud of that--and you call it a "Christmas present." Hmmmm.

You want to make me "happy?" Really? Stop making stuff up about decent DUers. Stop insisting that good, progressive people are women haters and misogynists. Stop twisting people's words. Stop inventing fake fights that mean nothing. Stop making DU suck.

I know I won't get my wishes, here, because you thrive on this kind of sick, disruptive drama, where you're the saintly truth teller, and everyone else is a misogynist who likes to spout vulgarities, and only you are the Way and the Light.

Don't think for a second that "not replying" is an acceptable resolution to the divisiveness and upset you attempt to create with posts like this latest one of yours. When I see someone crapping on people unfairly, I'm going to have something to say about it. Too bad if you don't like it.

So here's a suggestion--not a demand, a suggestion-- for you--take your own damned shitty advice. Put ME on ignore, wish ME dead, and never respond to ME again--give it a try! Maybe it'll make your life "happier."

I rather doubt it, but one never knows...

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