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In reply to the discussion: My dumbest question ever... how do people shtup these days? [View all]Warpy
(110,744 posts)34. First you need to negotiate dating unless you want to pay a call girl
and a lot of men find themselves doing just that because what was appropriate when they were 20 feels silly as hell when they are over 40. Call girls are a sure thing.
There's an online dating group for seniors if you're 55 plus and not set on finding 18 year old arm candy.
If your body is still hanging together, you can join various organizations from birdwatching to soup kitchens to political campaigns or churches to meet people.
I don't find your question a bit offensive. A lot of people out there are sharing your concern because there doesn't seem to be any graceful way to do what they just did without thinking when they were in their late teens and early 20s.
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Yeah I had an automatic update to 8.1 a couple days l after I got my new laptop.
Autumn
Mar 2014
#129
"at one time we peed & threw our own feces at each other to express gratitude & general attraction"
Warren DeMontague
Mar 2014
#139
Who didn't know Ann at Cornell? And by that, I mean carnally. Seriously...you never met her?
msanthrope
Mar 2014
#19
A person with a *whit* of sense would have written something like "Gee, Manny,
MannyGoldstein
Mar 2014
#33
You seem touchy. Did I offend by posting in a protected group? Look in a mirror
Autumn
Mar 2014
#161
Naturally you see no difference between personal gossip and talking about racism
BainsBane
Mar 2014
#162
I've said it before, Manny. You could post a fucking meat loaf recipe and someone ...
11 Bravo
Mar 2014
#91
Manny didn't say or imply or even suggest that a woman that has self-confidence is hubristic
Vattel
Mar 2014
#81
out of his many personas, his "put upon victim" persona is the least professional...
dionysus
Mar 2014
#36
a poorly recycled mel brooks act.... "hey! where's a fella gotta go to shtup around here! oy!"
dionysus
Mar 2014
#57
wow, just further proof this thread was nothing but flypaper to get posts hidden
R B Garr
Mar 2014
#100
how do people move from "nice to meet you!" to "um, I'm having trouble with this clip thing"?
DJ13
Mar 2014
#4
The smooth move these days is to pull out a virtual wallet and send across a couple of bitcoins
BlueStreak
Mar 2014
#32
C'mon. I never said that. I said guys who are out looking for shtupping are not looking for
Cleita
Mar 2014
#48
it's the same as it was then only the choice of beverage has changed. ;) lol nt
Javaman
Mar 2014
#73
Willingness to explore natural bisexual inclinations doubles your chances for a date.
Zorra
Mar 2014
#109
You know, I considered that, and then i thought "but Hoover isn't actually a geographic location"
Warren DeMontague
Mar 2014
#171