Your post is heartbreaking on multiple levels. (Reply #88)

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Tue May 27, 2014, 08:43 PM

salin (48,840 posts)

88. Your post is heartbreaking on multiple levels.

The pain of your brother, and of you and your family.

The ruthlessness and cruelty of anonymous posters.

The disregard of the experience from the admin per post it - and you get whatever happens.

The alert on the OP itself, as if it is a problem.

I have been a participant here, since January of 2002. I still read regularly, but I rarely post (partially due to a function of time/life and partially due to the level of vitriol and disregard of humanity that, at times, gets "let loose" on fellow members of the community.)

I haven't read the thread(s) in question, but your description does not sound anomalous. Your post was heartbreaking to read.

May you re-find your peace.

The loss of your voice will be a loss to the community.

salin

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149 replies	Author	Time	Post
This message was self-deleted by its author [View all]	Bjorn Against	May 2014	OP
Mercy	shenmue	May 2014	#1
The more who participate at DU, the better. You should reconsider.	randome	May 2014	#2
I agree!	burrowowl	May 2014	#104
Don't let a few clueless people stop you from posting here......	Logical	May 2014	#3
I have to support Skinner's viewpoint on this....	msanthrope	May 2014	#4
You're misreading what Skinner said.	pintobean	May 2014	#5
There was a link to those posts in the question.	Jamastiene	May 2014	#77
You're both putting words in Skinner's mouth.	pintobean	May 2014	#78
No, that is what came out of his mouth.	Jamastiene	May 2014	#79
No, this is what he posted	pintobean	May 2014	#80
Putting words in people's mouths is a vital part of the game of DU	JVS	May 2014	#84
Spot on	LittleBlue	May 2014	#87
That's it, in a nutshell.	1000words	May 2014	#92
Exactly so, and aptly put. n/t	X_Digger	May 2014	#108
Sad, but true (nt)	Captain Stern	May 2014	#120
I agree n/t	Aerows	May 2014	#90
Nope. Here's link, and Skinner is exactly right. OP started it by using his family as an example	Bernardo de La Paz	May 2014	#139
I'm sorry to see you go. Best wishes to you and your family... (nt)	petronius	May 2014	#6
i didn't read any of those threads	Leme	May 2014	#7
Please stay	democrank	May 2014	#8
We need you. We have to	nilesobek	May 2014	#9
This ^^^^	calimary	May 2014	#115
Good luck with everything; and I hope this becomes a break rather than	el_bryanto	May 2014	#10
Peace be with you.	hunter	May 2014	#11
I definitely see and understand the need to back away from this site.	Crunchy Frog	May 2014	#12
Let me second everything Crunchy said, and add to it that I will be very sad to see you go.	stranger81	May 2014	#16
This is so true which is why I spend less and less time here:	sabrina 1	May 2014	#26
"Maybe they never were what they purported to be"	zeemike	May 2014	#53
Well said. nt	woo me with science	May 2014	#71
That's it, exactly.	Enthusiast	May 2014	#116
Spot on!	City Lights	May 2014	#41
Agreed.	Jamastiene	May 2014	#76
Thats quite a post.	Rhinodawg	May 2014	#13
I'm sorry to read about what happened	Marrah_G	May 2014	#14
Sorry that you had to go through that. I understand where you are coming from and...	stevenleser	May 2014	#15
this was your opportunity	KT2000	May 2014	#17
This is the best advice I've read in this post. Please heed it if you are strong enough. You can	The Wielding Truth	May 2014	#49
I support Skinner's decision on this.	Laelth	May 2014	#18
Trust me, you don't need DU.	Puzzledtraveller	May 2014	#19
You won't be missed if I never see you again ...	sunnystarr	May 2014	#130
I would hope not.	Puzzledtraveller	May 2014	#141
...	ismnotwasm	May 2014	#20
Sorry to see you go, Bjorn. You seem like a decent fellow.	AverageJoe90	May 2014	#21
That's some cold shit from Skinner.	Gormy Cuss	May 2014	#22
Thanks for saying that. I was thinking of how to word what you said.	Whisp	May 2014	#25
Bjorn there's lots of idiots on DU who JUST.DO.NOT.GET.IT.	Skittles	May 2014	#23
Skinner's feedback was spot on.	aikoaiko	May 2014	#24
ahh, yes they were attacking his brother	Leme	May 2014	#33
Yes. OP started a thread & wrote about brother in second paragraph:	Bernardo de La Paz	May 2014	#138
Does it seem like Skinner is becoming an apologist for every jury decision?	CreekDog	May 2014	#27
I respect your courage in posting about something so personal to you.	hlthe2b	May 2014	#28
I'm sorry to see you leave.	TDale313	May 2014	#29
DU has become hostile to many minorities	CreekDog	May 2014	#30
du has a lot of	Niceguy1	May 2014	#55
I wish you had Skinners support, because in the end, YOU are advocating not only for your brother	Jefferson23	May 2014	#31
this	Leme	May 2014	#34
even progressives can be jerks sometimes. There's alot of people on this site that don't care if our	liberal_at_heart	May 2014	#32
Shame on them for posting such ignorance..sorry to hear that occurred at DU. n/t	Jefferson23	May 2014	#36
I went through a couple of the threads	Leme	May 2014	#35
Sorry to see a long time, positive contributor like you leave Bjorn.	bluesbassman	May 2014	#37
I'm sorry your brother was attacked. I enjoy your posts and	octoberlib	May 2014	#38
Good luck to you. I'm sorry	ballyhoo	May 2014	#39
I'm sorry this happened to you, Bjorn.	City Lights	May 2014	#40
I'm sorry I didn't jump into your earlier threads to help defend you and your family.	dawg	May 2014	#42
This message was self-deleted by its author	DeadLetterOffice	May 2014	#44
I am sorry to see you leave.	Half-Century Man	May 2014	#43
Thank you for standing up against bigotry.	DeadLetterOffice	May 2014	#45
You might be taking what is said on an Internet message board way too seriously.	totodeinhere	May 2014	#46
Some people are just jerks...	Blanks	May 2014	#59
Don't leave. Your experience and insight is needed.	deurbano	May 2014	#47
That was extremely presumptious of that poster	AtheistCrusader	May 2014	#48
Please do not leave	donnasgirl	May 2014	#50
Sadly, we really are considered replaceable and expendable by the admins.	Starry Messenger	May 2014	#51
It's been a long time since they seemed to care about what goes on here.	QC	May 2014	#64
Actually, they put it in our hands with DU3	pintobean	May 2014	#68
I see more DUers now on Facebook than here, from those days.	Starry Messenger	May 2014	#74
You said it	nadinbrzezinski	May 2014	#122
they aren't even here	CreekDog	May 2014	#82
Just curiouss	smallcat88	May 2014	#52
Why would you let these people drive you away? ...	Demo_Chris	May 2014	#54
Perhaps you did not read the posts in question ... ?	etherealtruth	May 2014	#98
Many Blessings for your family, take care. ADW n/t	AnotherDreamWeaver	May 2014	#56
Your posts and messages are important	etherealtruth	May 2014	#57
Ask your brother	sellitman	May 2014	#58
I'm sorry this happened to you, you stood up well for your brother. n/t	seaglass	May 2014	#60
I am sorry, and you are right. I'm sure if my brother	bettyellen	May 2014	#61
DU is largely a clown parade	Egnever	May 2014	#62
Bjorn, I have always enjoyed your posts.	Squinch	May 2014	#63
Message auto-removed	Name removed	May 2014	#65
I can't believe this actually got alerted on. (1-6 LEAVE IT)	PoliticalPothead	May 2014	#66
....	Leme	May 2014	#69
whomever alerted made a familiar mistake, they called the SOP of this forum, the "TOS"	CreekDog	May 2014	#81
I've noticed a lot of people do that.	pintobean	May 2014	#83
Thuggy McPunitive must've been in an alerting mood today.	DisgustipatedinCA	May 2014	#96
I wouldn't let a few usernames run me off this site.	Rex	May 2014	#67
I'm very sorry this happened to you! Please consider a break instead.	cyberswede	May 2014	#70
Post #46 echoed my thoughts. The only thing I would add, is I generally don't think its a good idea	quinnox	May 2014	#72
Nor do I "think it's a good idea to talk about very personal information...	Surya Gayatri	May 2014	#133
Peace to you and yours	Hekate	May 2014	#73
Good luck Bjorn...	Ohio Joe	May 2014	#75
may you never again experience the cruelty and hate that has become typical of DU	carolinayellowdog	May 2014	#85
Very well said.	JNelson6563	May 2014	#89
Your quality of life will likely improve	roody	May 2014	#86
Your post is heartbreaking on multiple levels.	salin	May 2014	#88
Beautifully said. (nt)	scarletwoman	May 2014	#97
Luckily, I'm friends with you outside of DU/Discussionist	Aerows	May 2014	#91
I'm very sorry you're leaving.	polly7	May 2014	#93
I wish you the best and hope you stick around rather than letting the assholes carry the day.	TheKentuckian	May 2014	#94
This makes me sad.	herding cats	May 2014	#95
Bye. Don't let the door ......	oldhippie	May 2014	#99
LOL. eom	TransitJohn	May 2014	#100
No offense, but that GBCW was TLDR.	MADem	May 2014	#101
I so hope you reconsider - please read this post	Samantha	May 2014	#102
Don't leave.	deathrind	May 2014	#103
Please don't leave	steve2470	May 2014	#105
Bjorn Against, I am right there with you, and believe me, I understand 100%! I took a long break	Liberal_Stalwart71	May 2014	#106
love your post	barbtries	May 2014	#119
People see what they want to see	Common Sense Party	May 2014	#107
i don't think you get guilty by innuendo/rhetoric	Leme	May 2014	#109
This poster certainly did not use the word "if" when they needlessly attacked Bjorn.	Jamastiene	May 2014	#110
The gun and MRA bullies are ever more strident and disgusting because they are loosing.	greatlaurel	May 2014	#111
IMO, Skinner is correct; however, do what you have to do.	Algernon Moncrieff	May 2014	#112
Now is exactly the time to have this discussion, later on nobody will be listening...	slipslidingaway	May 2014	#113
when people are being insulting and attacking	Leme	May 2014	#114
People don't generally discuss mental health rationally after a mass murder	Algernon Moncrieff	May 2014	#140
my opinion, usuallyone needs to addreess misinformation and such when it occurs	Leme	May 2014	#143
i'll miss you.	barbtries	May 2014	#117
Yea, it might be a good idea, sometimes this is not the place to hang out on	nolabels	May 2014	#118
The DU is FULL of conservative trolls	Omaha Steve	May 2014	#121
That is probably true. But I suspect that there are those who consider	totodeinhere	May 2014	#144
I agree	Omaha Steve	May 2014	#148
But the difference is that most good progressive are at least trying.	totodeinhere	May 2014	#149
I wish you and your brother well	nadinbrzezinski	May 2014	#123
I completely understand withdrawing and protecting family.	Sheepshank	May 2014	#124
This is a blow to DU.	DanTex	May 2014	#125
I don't think Skinner said anything wrong. When one posts a topic there will be good and bad	RKP5637	May 2014	#126
YOU chose to take it that way, imo. The posts WERE describing MY FAMILY and the 4 decades of danger	blm	May 2014	#127
His, and your family was under attack	Leme	May 2014	#137
Baloney. Your broad brush is as wrongheaded as his. If YOUR falsehoods are allowed and condoned	blm	May 2014	#145
Please don't leave. No one knows your journey, but we don't want you to do it alone, either. There	ancianita	May 2014	#128
Good luck. Your love for your brother is inspiring n/t	taught_me_patience	May 2014	#129
An option would be to start with a new account.	ErikJ	May 2014	#131
Stay in the fight.	davidthegnome	May 2014	#132
Vaya con dios	CFLDem	May 2014	#134
I'm sorry that words of kindness and encouragement have been drowned out	klook	May 2014	#135
All I can say is I believe the voiceless need you to speak for them.	joanbarnes	May 2014	#136
Hugs and peace to you.	Ilsa	May 2014	#142
Response from a DUer who did not give you comfort and support	Jim Lane	May 2014	#146
You are sadly missed.	Lasher	May 2014	#147

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