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Response to geek tragedy (Reply #37)

Wed May 28, 2014, 01:27 AM

50. I'm playing the victim? Erm...alright. I'm not sure how I'm the victim, given that...

 

...the victims of this kind of thing are men, but whatever. You're right that I won't just shut up and listen. I WILL NEVER JUST SHUT UP AND LISTEN. I'll listen, and if I think there's something wrong I'll point it out. I'll shut up when it is time to listen, until such a point that listening has become detrimental. If -you- want to shut up and listen, then by all means go ahead.

But I'm not here to confront - I never am, not on this forum. I'll disagree, I'll agree, I'll add in my insights, but if they aren't wanted I'll go elsewhere and that's fine. I can't be -defensive- on this topic, given it isn't aimed at me in the first place. But contrary to popular belief, we don't all walk in lockstep and I'm -not- certain all my sisters have my best (or even -any-) of my best interests at heart. And because of that I will not just shut up.

Now that this -has- gone into the realm of derailing, I'll give you a thumbs up on getting it there so everyone, not just you, can ignore what I say. Something done to me -far- more often than the tripe in half of these hashtags, and usually by other women.

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