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hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 11:31 AM Jul 2014

As I've gotten older, I'm becoming a wimp, and I don't like that! [View all]

I'm 55 and I've had some knocks in my lifetime. I have always considered myself a very strong person, but lately, I've just gotten to the point that things that go wrong, even little things, simply take a greater toll on me. I look around and see friends and family dealing with a lot more than me, and I remind myself to be thankful.

And I AM thankful. But I just don't seem to be as resilient as I once was, and that bothers me.

Just wondering if anyone else feels this way? Is it just age? Is it having seen too much of what life can do? Is it cowardice? Is it even perhaps realistic with the world we live in, social media, 24-hour news, etc., etc.

Thoughts, anyone? Am I preaching to the choir? Or am I in the minority?

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I think the endless 7x24 hr. crap that goes on with "social media, 24-hour news, etc., etc." can RKP5637 Jul 2014 #1
Hormonal changes? Erich Bloodaxe BSN Jul 2014 #2
Excellent analysis/synopsis IMO!!! RKP5637 Jul 2014 #4
Yes, most definitely playing a part. hamsterjill Jul 2014 #9
I used to get all fired up about issues.... femmocrat Jul 2014 #3
Have you checked your testosterone levels? IronLionZion Jul 2014 #5
Dear hamster, NCTraveler Jul 2014 #6
I think your post must've hit a nerve. hamsterjill Jul 2014 #7
We don't get enough time to do these things. NCTraveler Jul 2014 #11
I have to do this too PasadenaTrudy Jul 2014 #13
I hope you attain your dream! hamsterjill Jul 2014 #16
Thank you... PasadenaTrudy Jul 2014 #17
Dude, I hit my 30s and I am nowhere near as brave as I once was. Xyzse Jul 2014 #8
As I have gotten older awoke_in_2003 Jul 2014 #10
I think we become more risk-averse as we age. Brigid Jul 2014 #12
Great points PasadenaTrudy Jul 2014 #15
"Old age isn't for sissies." Bette Davis Tierra_y_Libertad Jul 2014 #14
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