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calimary

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11. I hear all the time, from men - "meh, this is BIZNISS!!! Look, it's just BIZNISS!"
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 05:02 PM
Aug 2014

But man oh man, let ME say that to one of them in the middle of various negotiations, and Dear God does that make the very sky above our heads rip from horizon to horizon and fall in, bringing on the destruction of Western Civilization! OMG! OH the HUMANITY!!! "HOW DARE YOU!" "Now WAIT JUST A MINUTE!" "HEY! THAT'S not the way BIZNISS is done!" OMG their heads spin around on their necks and they have apoplectic fits!

Such a double standard out there against women executives. It'd be funny if it weren't true.

And it's even WORSE if you're a mom. You're the lowest of the low, the least deserving of equal treatment or respect. You're just something else to sneer at. They practically spit out the word "momager" - which I REFUSE to be called, btw. But it's absolutely a term of derision and diminishment. You're that much less likely to be taken seriously in a lot of cases.

Holy crap leftstreet Aug 2014 #1
i am told often, and regulary i am abrasive for simply speaking. kinda like that sentence seabeyond Aug 2014 #6
I hear all the time, from men - "meh, this is BIZNISS!!! Look, it's just BIZNISS!" calimary Aug 2014 #11
it is still funny, even true. we have lived it a lifetime and know what we are talking about. seabeyond Aug 2014 #12
Sadly not surprising. Arugula Latte Aug 2014 #2
important lessons G_j Aug 2014 #7
Expect words such as "abrasive", "shrill" and "hysterical" to be applied to Hillary Clinton Nye Bevan Aug 2014 #3
As were done with Sarah Palin in this forum in the past (hysterical was used as funny, not batshit). OnlinePoker Aug 2014 #13
actually I challenge you to find either abrassive or shrill used in relationship to Palin dsc Aug 2014 #18
Challenge accepted OnlinePoker Aug 2014 #21
I know full well Clinton hasn't dsc Aug 2014 #22
looking at your Palin ones dsc Aug 2014 #23
No surprise there. WCLinolVir Aug 2014 #4
gotta bookmark. sounds fascinating. and most women recognize. i gotta read the whole seabeyond Aug 2014 #5
I had to send the link to my husband with the note I had NOT IdaBriggs Aug 2014 #8
At least thirty years ago I read something SheilaT Aug 2014 #9
When women talk 17% of the time, it is considered equality KitSileya Aug 2014 #14
oh so true. so many women's livelihoods, earnings, financial health.... BlancheSplanchnik Aug 2014 #10
I prefer identical-resume tests, because everything else is controlled for. Donald Ian Rankin Aug 2014 #15
So then, are you refuting the findings given in this OP? Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2014 #16
Please read posts before replying to them. Donald Ian Rankin Aug 2014 #19
Muddy Waters. I have seen him live. Have you? It was an excellent concert at a very small venue. Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2014 #20
It is unfortunate there was no difference based on the gender of the evaluator Android3.14 Aug 2014 #17
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