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dballance

(5,756 posts)
35. "Male Figure in Their Life?" Seriously?
Wed Sep 17, 2014, 09:31 AM
Sep 2014

Thanks for disparaging all the single mothers in this nation that raise kids just fine without a constant male figure in the life of their kids. Nice of you to take us on a trip back to the '50s and the Cleavers. A fantasy family that really never existed in reality.

I grew up poor, in a trailer, in TN. I know better than to "whoop" a kid with a tree branch so hard it leaves wounds a doctor has to report to CPS. The amount of money my family had at our disposal had nothing to do with right or wrong. Abusing a child is just as wrong at $1 as it is at $1,000. Watch "Mommy Dearest" if you think that more money makes it easier on children and they are less likely to be abused.

So Peterson got "whooped" as a child the way that he "whooped" his 4-year-old. It obviously didn't teach him much since he continues the chain of abuse. Taking him out of the picture will break the chain of abuse since he won't be there to abuse kids any longer.

I agree that incarceration in this country is not helpful and does nothing to rehabilitate a person. So, at the very least, he should be prevented from interacting with children. Sure, put him on probation and make him do community service and mandatory therapy. That would probably be a lot more productive than putting him in prison. It might also allow him to continue to earn a living from which he can pay child support.

Adrian Peterson and Parenting [View all] dballance Sep 2014 OP
whooping with a "tree branch?" angel123 Sep 2014 #1
Have you seen the pictures? cwydro Sep 2014 #2
he beat the crap out of the kid. It was a tree branch. He went out, snapped a branch off a tree cali Sep 2014 #4
You should educate yourself before you start opining. The photos show numerous long streaks pnwmom Sep 2014 #7
"What the hell kind of wood did he use" is irrelevant dballance Sep 2014 #30
Memories of fear to keep their black child alive. Fear not to misbehave toward authority. And the Pisces Sep 2014 #3
ugh. disgusting post. this. was. a. four. year. old. cali Sep 2014 #5
I second this 100%. AverageJoe90 Sep 2014 #6
I third it. Laffy Kat Sep 2014 #10
Education is the answer, not jail. 2 wrongs don't make a right. This family will not be better off Pisces Sep 2014 #12
family? this guy has 7 children with 7 different children. None of the children live with him cali Sep 2014 #13
I think many in the African American community may be defending Peterson or looking for some Pisces Sep 2014 #17
As I said, I don't know that jail is the answer cali Sep 2014 #20
Family? Father? Are you kidding? dballance Sep 2014 #31
I do not excuse or condone what was done to that poor boy. Throwing Peterson in jail is not going Pisces Sep 2014 #9
I don't know that jail is the answer cali Sep 2014 #11
Peterson grew up poor, in Palestine Tx. He is not from loads of money. There is a socio economic Pisces Sep 2014 #15
He doesn't have a "family". cwydro Sep 2014 #16
His father went to jail for money laundering. cali Sep 2014 #23
I don't think the situation is black and white. Peterson grew up poor, so there is a socio economic Pisces Sep 2014 #28
I can tell you about Palestine, and East Texas in general. Manifestor_of_Light Sep 2014 #32
"Male Figure in Their Life?" Seriously? dballance Sep 2014 #35
Peterson is NOT a Family man. He is NOT a "father" to his kids. He's a sperm donor. dballance Sep 2014 #34
Sorry, no matter how archaic your views on corporal punishment and discipline of children are, what FSogol Sep 2014 #8
These are not my views. I do think we need to educate, prison does not reform and it will not help Pisces Sep 2014 #18
Where did I advocate prison? FSogol Sep 2014 #19
Wow. nt cwydro Sep 2014 #14
"I would ask that those on this board understand the position black fathers or black parents find Brickbat Sep 2014 #25
How on earth can a person be hit with a switch or a belt and not have it leave marks? Coventina Sep 2014 #21
I learned something new today, some DUers think their children are their property. Rex Sep 2014 #22
Very sad. FSogol Sep 2014 #24
what really is distressing is seeing people call what Peterson did "discipline" cali Sep 2014 #26
Yeah that has me a little freaked out. Rex Sep 2014 #27
I hope he serves prison time for what he did to that poor toddler. Nye Bevan Sep 2014 #29
The needed memories are the ones he got from his own childhood kcr Sep 2014 #33
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