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Silver Gaia

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24. Thank you for this post, demorank. My husband is a disabled Vietnam veteran.
Thu Oct 16, 2014, 05:30 AM
Oct 2014

He has recently gone through a prolonged (successful!) bout of chemo and radiation treatments for throat cancer. I went with him to every treatment, as I have always done with his other medical appointments at the VA. (He also has service-connected skin cancer, so there have been many, many visits.) I, too, have seen these men (and women), and have listened to their stories. Like you, I do what I can to help, whenever or wherever I can, whether it's helping them manage the new technology, or just listening. It is always humbling, and they touch my heart in so many ways. I feel grateful for the opportunity to give something back to them, however small the gesture may be, for their service and their sacrifice.

Recently, my husband's medical visits have taken us to a large military hospital at a local Air Force base, where I have met many young, active duty service men and women, and I have been impressed by these young people as well. They go out of their way to help the older veterans in their midst politely and respectfully, whether it's just to help navigate the base or the hospital, or to lend a needed hand with something. We never even needed to ask for help. Someone was always there asking if we needed help, even before we knew we needed it. I am grateful to them as well.

Thank you, again, for your post, for sharing your stories with us. It meant a lot to both me and my husband. We thank you.

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DU Rec In_The_Wind Oct 2014 #1
Yea oldandhappy Oct 2014 #2
Thanks for that post. As a Vietnam vet I am lucky upaloopa Oct 2014 #3
Thank you for your service. n/t eggplant Oct 2014 #4
Thank you so much for your post. Both of my parents were WWII veterans and Dad served in Korea. japple Oct 2014 #5
Thank you, democrank. nt sarge43 Oct 2014 #6
My father died of Agent Orange exposure. nolabear Oct 2014 #7
And on it goes.... and on... and on.... Bigmack Oct 2014 #8
A friend died of exposure to agent orange. Enthusiast Oct 2014 #9
A Vietnam Vet I know is recording a CD of songs based on his experiences Beaverhausen Oct 2014 #10
It's something of an urban legend that vets were 'shit on' when they got back. Certainly, they KingCharlemagne Oct 2014 #19
They absolutely were shit on when they came back whopis01 Oct 2014 #25
This message was self-deleted by its author KingCharlemagne Oct 2014 #28
Got you. Agree 100% that government treated vets mighty shabbily KingCharlemagne Oct 2014 #29
I didn't mean literally. But they were taunted and called baby killers Beaverhausen Oct 2014 #30
Really? Would your friend or you be receptive to academic studies that KingCharlemagne Oct 2014 #31
IT HAPPENED TO HIM!!! Beaverhausen Oct 2014 #32
I remember those days pretty well. They were crapped on, and then they weren't. MADem Oct 2014 #37
Pentagon Papers leaker and now fervent antiwar activist Daniel Ellsberg says KingCharlemagne Oct 2014 #38
I wish we'd stop putting shit on the mall, myself. MADem Oct 2014 #39
In war, peace and when they're injured ffr Oct 2014 #11
Oh dear, I have something in my eye... cry baby Oct 2014 #12
Thank you. For those of us at home, the battle ends. For many brave souls ... CaptainTruth Oct 2014 #13
Incredibly moving, democrank Iwillnevergiveup Oct 2014 #14
VA takes really takes good care of me. marble falls Oct 2014 #15
I support the vets (I'm one myself, though I went through nothing like some have). ladyVet Oct 2014 #16
Seems to me the best thing we can do for our veterans is not to make more of them. calimary Oct 2014 #17
Thank you, Democrank. You make the world a better place. mountain grammy Oct 2014 #18
I love that part of Vermont. elleng Oct 2014 #20
I worked for many years on we lawyers called the "Dust Docket," which was usually made up Dustlawyer Oct 2014 #21
Love and Peace to you and your companion pinboy3niner Oct 2014 #22
Thank hou for being there for those vets. No Vested Interest Oct 2014 #23
Thank you for this post, demorank. My husband is a disabled Vietnam veteran. Silver Gaia Oct 2014 #24
K&R n/t intaglio Oct 2014 #26
Never was in VN, but our friend's brother was, and died from Agent Orange DFW Oct 2014 #27
I am a military brat demigoddess Oct 2014 #33
kicking…. dhill926 Oct 2014 #34
Thank you for your post. Our Serviceman suffer during and after wars. The physical and mental glinda Oct 2014 #35
HUGE K & R !!! - THANK YOU !!! WillyT Oct 2014 #36
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