whatever is best in ones own head, looking at life and deciding ... For me, I don't like someone else trying to stuff my head with their notions, their god(s), their dogma, there notion of rules and sins. Religion to me is another form of politics and control mechanisms often fraught with opportunists, charlatans, control freaks and often dominate males, often those wanting to leverage power over others, and often rewarded with great sums of $$$$$'s.