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LuvNewcastle

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18. You're probably talking about someone
Wed Jan 20, 2016, 08:35 AM
Jan 2016

here whose sexuality has been warped by earlier sexual experiences. I've known many different kinds of people, but I've never known anyone who was never attracted to any person yet they still desired sex. Sounds like it could possibly be an S/M thing, or maybe another kink I'm not familiar with. I certainly don't think it's common.

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How and why would someone have sex with "someone that they don't find attractive"? darkangel218 Jan 2016 #1
It a reference to a thing called cupiosexuality. LostOne4Ever Jan 2016 #3
when you say attractive Skittles Jan 2016 #2
Yes, exactly. nt LostOne4Ever Jan 2016 #4
People have sex with other people for reasons other than attractiveness all of the time Yavin4 Jan 2016 #5
OP was referring to people who apparently don't find anyone* attractive, yet they desire sex darkangel218 Jan 2016 #6
Do they find certain people unattractive? prayin4rain Jan 2016 #7
According to them they don't find anyone sexually attractive. Ever. But desire sex. nt LostOne4Ever Jan 2016 #8
I can see a person prayin4rain Jan 2016 #9
I mean, rare. .. not, not possible. n/t prayin4rain Jan 2016 #10
It is fine I got what you mean THANK YOU for posting very much!!! nt LostOne4Ever Jan 2016 #11
Can you define asexual? beam me up scottie Jan 2016 #12
For this thread-Asexual: A person who does not have the potential to experience sexual attraction LostOne4Ever Jan 2016 #13
I would say it's rare. beam me up scottie Jan 2016 #14
Other... Donkees Jan 2016 #15
I have to say I am very confused. Behind the Aegis Jan 2016 #16
It is a confused question, and I am sorry for that. LostOne4Ever Jan 2016 #17
You're probably talking about someone LuvNewcastle Jan 2016 #18
To me this is all about 'attractiveness' and nothing else and it reminds me of When Harry Met Sally Stellar Jan 2016 #19
Its kind of like masturbation where the other person is merely an instrument of orgasm. aikoaiko Jan 2016 #20
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